Princess Kate emphasises ‘importance of empathy’ in message of hope at star-studded Christmas carol service

PRINCESS Kate has emphasised the “importance of empathy” in a message of hope at her star-studded Christmas carol service.

The Princess of Wales called for people to “slow down and reflect on the deeper things that connect us all” and turn to “love, not fear” as she opened the televised service.

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The fourth annual Together at Christmas concert was filmed at Westminster Abbey earlier this month, with husband Prince William and children Prince George, 11, Princess Charlotte, nine, and six-year-old Prince Louis in attendance.

It featured performances by Paloma Faith, jazz singer Gregory Porter, singer-songwriter JP Cooper, alongside the Soul Sanctuary Choir, and new singing talent Olivia Dean.

Olympic cycling legend Sir Chris Hoy, who revealed he has terminal prostrate cancer in recent weeks, lit a candle, as did wife of late rugby league star Rob Burrow, who died in June following a battle with motor neurone disease.

Readings were also given by actors Richard E Grant, Downton Abbey star Michelle Dockery, and Sophie Okonedo, as well as Olympic swimming gold medallist Adam Peaty.

However, Kate, 42, is understood to have refused to invite scandal-hit royal Prince Andrew to the bash.

The Prince and Princess of Wales are reportedly not keen to have the disgraced Duke of York at their public events – and rejected a proposal to have him seated behind a pillar, it is claimed.

BEHIND-THE-SCENES

Meanwhile, earlier today Kate gave a sweet message after sharing behind-the-scenes footage from the concert.

In a video she could be seen beaming as she greeted children in an unseen montage.

A post from the Waleses’ Instagram today said: “This service reflects upon the importance of love and empathy, and how much we need each other, especially in the most difficult times of our lives.

“Thank you to everyone who has been a part of this year’s celebrations.”

It comes after Kate began easing back into public duties after announcing she was cancer-free in September.

She officially returned to work last month when she joined William for the annual Festival of Remembrance at the Royal Albert Hall in South Kensington, London.

Then earlier this month she met Qatar’s Royal Family during a two-day state visit to the UK.

Her heartfelt message was included in a letter handed out to every guest during the concert on December 6, before being shared as a video clip ahead of the Christmas Eve broadcast.

It played as a voice over at the beginning of ITV’s coverage this evening.

Kate said: “Christmas is one of my favourite times of the year, it is a time for presents, tinsel and mince pies, but it’s also a time to slow down and reflect on the deeper things that connect us all. 

“It is when we stop and take ourselves away from the pressures of daily life, that we find the space to live our lives with an open heart, with love, kindness and forgiveness, so much of what the Christmas spirit is all about. 

“The Christmas story encourages us to consider the experiences and feelings of others. It also reflects our own vulnerabilities and reminds us of the importance of giving and receiving empathy, as well as just how much we need each other in spite of our differences. Above all else, it encourages us to turn to love, not fear.”

Kate continued: “The love that we show ourselves and the love we show others.

“Love that listens with empathy, love that is kind and understanding, love that is forgiving, and love that brings joy and hope. 

“It is love which is the greatest gift we can receive, not just at Christmas but every day of our lives.”

The service is featuring a narration by Scottish actress Kelly Macdonald – known for films Trainspotting and No Country for Old Men.

It will also “feature three special community films which bring to life the stories of people and organisations who have inspired, counselled and comforted others in their times of need”.

Kensington Palace said: “In each of the films, the groups are seen receiving letters from the princess inviting them to attend – and in the case of the Sankofa Songsters sing at – the service at Westminster Abbey.”

The films will showcase the Worcestershire Gingerbread Group, Go Beyond and intergenerational choir the Sankofa Songsters.

The first highlights a single mum based in Worcestershire, who set up the group to tackle loneliness.

Go Beyond sees six young carers, aged between eight and 13, who “go above and beyond every day to show empathy and support to their families”.

Sankofa Songsters features an intergenerational choir which brings together care home residents and their young friends.

Kensington Palace said the choir has “enhanced the lives of everyone, strengthening relationships between all ages by spreading kindness and love, with members aged from two to 100”.

HELPING HAND

Kate reached out to grieving Lady Gabriella Windsor, 43 – daughter of Prince and Princess Michael of Kent – for help in planning the concert.

The princess made contact over the summer after Lady Gabriella’s husband Thomas Kingston, 45, died in February.

She went on to play a major role in putting on the service.

One of Lady Gabriella’s personal touches was helping to engage youth charity Restore the Music, who played to guests as they queued to enter the service.

Polly Moore, CEO of Restore the Music, said: “Lady Gabriella is incredibly passionate about music and helping young people find their voice.

“She has been an ambassador for us for the past five years and often attends our events. When she messaged to ask if I would be interested I said, ‘Are you kidding, of course!’

“She was incredibly approachable and a brilliant sounding board in the planning process. She’s the most wonderful person. I’m extremely grateful to her.”

Lady Gabriella also helped select singer Gregory Porter and pianist Rosey Chan to perform a specially-composed lyrical piece that was played alongside a poem read by Ms Okonedo.

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