How to survive the stress of A-Level results day even if you don’t get grades you want
PUPILS across the country find out their A-level results today.
And on Thursday it will be the turn of GCSE students to see how they have fared. It is a stressful time for pupils AND parents.
MANAGE STRESS
BEFORE the results come out, every pupil should be patting themselves on the back for getting through their GCSE and A-level years during a pandemic – studying from home with less interaction with teachers.
Last night, A level students will have been pacing about like cats in anticipation of today. Today, make a choice to step away from social media.
Put your phone down. Ignore the mass hysteria going on in your WhatsApp groups. Ignore the noise of results day and stay calm in your own little bubble.
For GCSE pupils, I would advise putting a message out on Wednesday night wishing your friends good luck and telling them you are stepping away from social media for a day or so.
Parents, you can encourage this.
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DON'T PANIC
students can get on to the UCAS Track site – to find out if they have got their university place or not – from 8.30am (not midnight as some think).
If you’ve got your firm or conditional offers, then happy days, go off and celebrate. If you haven’t got either of these, then the most important thing is not to panic.
You haven’t got your results yet, so don’t make any rash decisions until you’ve got those from school. Read them carefully.
It’s OK to feel disappointed and sit with that feeling for a while, but the best thing to do is move on calmly with a plan.
Parents, it is important to stress to your child that their grades do not define them.
The best job you can do right now is to put the kettle on and make breakfast – it could be a long day ahead.
YOUR OPTIONS
IF you haven’t got into the university you wanted, you can appeal over your results via your school. Let the university know you are doing this.
Another option is to sit the exams in the autumn. But think carefully. Your teachers know you best – are you really going to improve on the grade they have given you?
If you are set on going to university, then you will be able to go through Clearing.
On the UCAS site, Clearing Plus will suggest places and courses similar to your original choice.
Parents, you need to be on hand with your laptops and tablets to research any institutions your child likes the look of.
For GCSE students, if you don’t get the results you need to carry on for A-levels at your school, you can try to apply to another school or a sixth form college.
Many places now offer a combination of A-levels and BTECs, which are more vocational.
TAKE TIME OUT
A GAP year is always a good option. Employers look for life skills – and you will get plenty of those once you leave school and navigate your own path.
IT'S JUST NOT YOU
YOU don’t have to make a decision on your own. Your school is likely to have a careers adviser, so seek help.
You can go to your local council website and look up Education and Skills and you will find details of your free local service, too.
There are also independent services, such as my own, which have guides for parents and pupils for results days.
Parents, you will want to be on hand for advice, too. If you have friends in the field your child wants to go into, ask them for some words of wisdom.
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Remember, things might not have gone the way you hoped, but you are not powerless.
Take a breath, think about what you want and make a plan.
And when you have, you can go back on social media and tell your friends.