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AS a solider who came perilously close to losing my life in Afghanistan, I object to anyone of any colour defacing Winston Churchill's statue or trying to pull it down.

Too many people lost their lives in World War II to erase history.

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As a soldier, Ben McBean objects to anyone of any colour defacing Winston Churchill’s statue
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As a soldier, Ben McBean objects to anyone of any colour defacing Winston Churchill’s statueCredit: AFP or licensors
Ben, dubbed 'Harry’s hero', smiles next to Prince Harry at the Millies Awards reception in 2009
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Ben, dubbed 'Harry’s hero', smiles next to Prince Harry at the Millies Awards reception in 2009Credit: News Group Newspapers Ltd

Nonetheless, as a civilian, I support Black Lives Matter.

I still remember the day I was travelling to the military rehab centre at Headley Court for treatment on my leg and arm, which I lost when an IED exploded in 2008.

All of a sudden, I was boxed in by six police cars. I was a young black man in a decent car and I was targeted because they thought I was a drug dealer.

They searched the car boot, even taking my false limbs out and shaking them to see if drugs fell out.

Protesters defaced the statue of the former British Prime Minister during a Black Lives Matter demonstration in London
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Protesters defaced the statue of the former British Prime Minister during a Black Lives Matter demonstration in LondonCredit: AP:Associated Press

Eventually, they accepted I was who I said I was, and that I had been wounded in Afghanistan. They apologised and gave me an escort to Headley Court, where I was late for my appointment.

But despite incidents like this, I urge you to remember that not everybody is racist.

Protests need direction

I support the BLM movement, but I don’t agree with every last little thing that is happening.

It is currently like rolling a boulder down a hill. No one is directing it - and it is getting out of control.

Ben lost his arm and leg when an IED went off in Afghanistan in 2008
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Ben lost his arm and leg when an IED went off in Afghanistan in 2008Credit: Collect
The former Royal Marine with his partner Zara Archer and son Albie
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The former Royal Marine with his partner Zara Archer and son AlbieCredit: News Group Newspapers Ltd
Veteran Ben supports the BLM movement but doesn’t agree with every last little thing that is happening
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Veteran Ben supports the BLM movement but doesn’t agree with every last little thing that is happeningCredit: Getty Images - Getty
He says no one is directing the Black Lives Matter movement and it is getting out of control
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He says no one is directing the Black Lives Matter movement and it is getting out of controlCredit: Getty Images - Getty

On the one hand, you have people fighting for Black Lives Matter. On the other, you have someone smashing windows, and others fighting to get The Inbetweeners taken off TV.

Meanwhile, protestors are fighting for Churchill’s statue to be taken down, and others are protecting it.

No one seems to be leading this mass movement. Everyone is just doing their own thing.

 And the one thing I have not seen much of, on social media, is anyone talking rationally about resolving the issues.

Calm down and spark real change

If we had spent the last two weeks sensibly discussing solutions instead of everyone going crazy, BLM would by now have had a Zoom call with Boris Johnson to talk about the problem and how to start fixing it.

To make any progress, everyone must take a deep breath and calm down.

Ben believes BLM would have held discussions with Boris Johnson by now if the last two weeks had been spent sensibly discussing solutions
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Ben believes BLM would have held discussions with Boris Johnson by now if the last two weeks had been spent sensibly discussing solutionsCredit: AFP

People who oppose BLM do not have to agree with what they are saying, but at least if people on both sides had peaceful conversations, everyone would understand the issues behind the campaign. 

And there is good chance that more will come out in support of them.

But at least if people spoke calmly and thoughtfully, everyone would respond in kind and try to understand where we were coming from.

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At the minute virtually everything you see online is posted by angry black people and angry white people.

Nobody will deal with or listen to anyone who is acting up like that.

Ben says if people calmed down and spoke calmly 'we would know where they were coming from'
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Ben says if people calmed down and spoke calmly 'we would know where they were coming from'Credit: AFP
He believes nobody will deal with anyone who is 'acting up'
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He believes nobody will deal with anyone who is 'acting up'Credit: Splash News
Thousands of Black Lives Matter protesters join peaceful rallies across UK

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