Jump directly to the content

A TINDER date who met Grace Millane's killer while her body lay in his apartment says the murderer spoke of a "sex game gone wrong" during their meet-up.

Unknown to her, the British backpacker, 22, was lying dead on the floor of the 27-year-old man's apartment in New Zealand, and he had spent the morning before their date looking for a suitcase to store her body in.

 Grace Millane was murdered on December 1, 2018, while backpacking in New Zealand
6
Grace Millane was murdered on December 1, 2018, while backpacking in New ZealandCredit: Facebook
 Grace and her killer, who cannot be named for legal reasons
6
Grace and her killer, who cannot be named for legal reasonsCredit: PA:Press Association

Grace's killer, who cannot be named for legal reasons, was found guilty of murdering the 22-year-old British backpacker before burying her body in a suitcase.

The powerfully-built man was first seen wheeling the trolley into the lift at the hotel where he lived full time.

Shortly afterwards, he returned with it laden with two suitcases, one of which he has since admitted contained university graduate Grace’s naked body folded into a fetal position.

KILLER'S CONFESSION

The woman, whose name is suppressed, who unknowingly went on a date with the killer has written about the chilling encounter for the first time.

She recalled the encounter in a piece published to local site , where she wrote how they met in a bar in central Auckland.

She said the man quickly turned the conversation to a "sex-game-gone wrong" story.

The killer told his date he had heard the man had been put away for manslaughter but that it had been tough for him to see the woman he loved dying.

She was disturbed by the story and believed at that point he had begun to notice her discomfort, writing: "In hindsight, it was as if he was using this date to process what he’d done in a rather roundabout way - his brain needed to get it out but his mouth held him back. Was he testing theories on me to see which version seemed most believable?"

The murderer also claimed to have police officer friends who told them they were having problems with bodies being buried 4ft-deep in the Waitakere Ranges.

This was the same spot where Grace's dead body was later found.

He’d been shopping for a suitcase with wheels or a bag with wheels. He was frustrated that he couldn’t find one big enough to fit all his sports equipment. It makes me quite sick now to think of what that suitcase was actually used for

Killer's Tinder date

As the date continued, the woman - a former journalist - wrote that she told the man she enjoyed watching crime shows.

However the conversation took a turn for the worse, as topics became darker, leaving her feeling uncomfortable.

She was then forced to lie to get away from him after cutting their date short.

Writing about the now-terrifying encounter, the woman described how the man seemed "aloof" and had a large, athletic build.

She said he drank his beer quickly, and became "intense" as he steered the conversation to bizarre topics, from poisonous snakes to sex-games gone wrong.

She wrote: "The conversation started like all average Tinder dates - the activities of that previous morning. He’d been shopping for a suitcase with wheels or a bag with wheels. He was frustrated that he couldn’t find one big enough to fit all his sports equipment. Fair enough.

"He looked like a solid guy who played sport well. It makes me quite sick now to think of what that suitcase was actually used for."

DOUBLE LIFE

She wrote of always trying to give dates an hour to avoid being rude, and did the same for this date - only for the conversation to become even stranger.

She then said that he went on to tell her that he had prosecutor friends, and sensing an opportunity to lead the conversation away from his increasingly bizarre chatter, she mentioned her court reporting past.

The woman says she told him how she had reported on a previous unrelated murder trial.

She told him seeing the reactions of the defendant's and victim's families was something she would never forget.

She wrote: "When he heard this he said, 'it’s funny how guys can make one wrong move and go to jail for the rest of their lives'."

The conversation began to darken, as he then told her a story about a guy he claimed to have heard about, whose partner had asked for rough sex involving suffocation.

It’s funny how guys can make one wrong move and go to jail for the rest of their lives

Grace Millane's killer

He claimed that it had "gone wrong" and the girlfriend had died.

Tragic timeline

2018

November 20 - Grace arrives in New Zealand after travelling in Peru

December 1 - She is seen at the CityLife Hotel, in Auckland, with a 'male companion'

December 2 - Her family hear nothing from her on her 22nd birthday. On the same day a red Toyota Corolla hatchback is rented from a car hire firm

December 5 - A missing persons report is filed by her worried family

December 6 - Police release an image of Grace leaving the hostel on the evening of December 1

December 7 - Her dad David Millane makes an emotional plea for help as police reveal they have spoken to the male companion

December 8 - A 26-year-old man is taken into custody

December 9 - Police find a body they believe to be Grace

December 10 - A 26-year-old man appears in court charged with her murder

2019

November 4 - Murder trial begins in Auckland

November 22 - The man, now 27, is convicted of murder

After an hour-and-a-half she managed to leave the date.

"How on earth could this man be having a drink with me while her body was back in his apartment.

"I will never ever be able to come to terms with that."

 The man was seen entering a hotel lift with the porter's trolley
6
The man was seen entering a hotel lift with the porter's trolley
 The Brit backpacker's body was later found buried in a shallow grave
6
The Brit backpacker's body was later found buried in a shallow graveCredit: Stephen D'Antal
 Grace was last seen on CCTV going into a hotel with the man
6
Grace was last seen on CCTV going into a hotel with the manCredit: Facebook
 Grace's parents, David and Gillian Millane, outside court
6
Grace's parents, David and Gillian Millane, outside courtCredit: Getty Images - Getty
Grace Millane trial: Jury sees police interview in which killer says pair talked about 50 Shades of Grey and how he put backpacker's body in suitcase

We pay for your stories! Do you have a story for The Sun Online news team? Email us at [email protected] or call 0207 782 4368 . We pay for videos too. Click here to upload yours


Topics