Wife sickened to find her husband slept with prostitutes before they met so asks for advice on if she should ditch him… but other mums can’t see what the issue is
The woman revealed that her husband had paid for sex on holiday in Thailand before they were even a couple
A WIFE has revealed how she was left sickened to find her husband had slept with prostitutes before they had met - and even asked for advice on whether she should ditch him.
But other mums were left shocked by her outrage and told her they can't see what the issue is.
The woman took to to explain her dilemma after her partner confessed he had paid for sex in the past while he was on holiday in Thailand.
She wrote: "He told me this some time ago but I really am struggling to deal with this still and keep bringing it up, which is obviously annoying him and impacting on our relationship.
"I hate the idea of him thinking it is OK to rent a woman's body and not caring about anything but getting himself off, regardless of whether the woman consented.
"I know everyone has something in their past which is less than ideal and if he had expressed genuine remorse about his actions and acknowledged that he had taken part in an abusive and coercive industry I might have found it easier to move on.
"However, he maintains that he hasn't really done anything wrong."
The woman added that her husband insisted that he treated the women well so he is not ashamed.
But she explained: "When I pointed out that most women don't choose to become sex workers if they have any other viable choices, he compared use of prostitutes to me buying a drink on holiday from a bar man. Both don't want to be there apparently!
"Am I overthinking this?"
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And it appeared most other Mumsnet users thought she was, with one replying: "It wouldn't bother me personally. As long as he wasn't using them while in a relationship with me, its in his past, we all have a past."
Another said: "You said he told you some time ago and you keep bringing it up.
"Clearly you are uncomfortable with his previous sexual experiences. You have a choice, accept it happened and move on together. "
One forum member wrote: "Why would something that he had done years ago bother you now?"
While another added: "I would look at it as he was honest with you."
But there were others who were less than impressed with the husband's confession and told the woman she needed to end her marriage.
One wrote: "Would be a deal breaker for me I'm afraid I couldn't commit my life with someone who considered a woman so little then she bought her body for an hour."
While another explained: "Vile. Deal breaker for me."
Previously, we reported how mums moaned about parents who let their kids play loud games and videos on their iPad on public transport to ‘keep them quiet’.
We also told you about a wife whose husband insists she wears a bra on the weekends even though she doesn't want to - leaving everyone outraged.