Is your man on the small side? Dr Pam Spurr reveals six tips that will make him feel larger than life in the bedroom
From becoming the 'King of Foreplay' to mastering two key sex moves, our sexpert will help you feel like "a giant in bed"
OUR sex and relationship columnist Dr Pam Spurr regularly brings you must-know info for the bedroom and beyond.
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Stop press: guys on the smaller size are making the news. A new book revealing everything about our private online searches, found men search more about making their penis bigger than how to play the guitar.
You might argue they learn to ‘play’ both, but that’s another topic.
There’s also a new sex guide out for men who are less endowed. That’s good news but hold on guys, what's on all the panic? There's a saying that originates Stateside that all men should embrace: a diamond is better than a brick.
Plus the stats show 85% of women report being happy/satisfied with their partner's penis size, no matter if it's on the smaller size.
So become a giant in bed - without any vacuum pumps – with these six must-know tips:
1. Dr Feelgood Makes a House Call
Make her feel good in your company and she's not going to care about what you see as your dirty little secret.
Relax and enjoy her company. Ask her about how she is and her day. Be interested in what she says. One survey found that men who pay attention are ranked as much more desirable.
So enjoy some good bantz and she's less likely to care what's in your pants. Make this your motto: Bantz not pants.
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2. Become the ‘King of Foreplay’
Give her foreplay like she’s never experienced. As you start to kiss her, ask what she’d like you to do. Work your way slowly down her neck to her breasts with little kisses, licks and very gentle nips.
Take your time, keep asking if she wants a firmer or gentler pressure. Take her fingertip between your lips, suck it, and ask her to describe how much more/less pressure to use. This is a great technique for getting the pressure of your kisses, licks and sucks right.
3. Tease to Please
Build even more sexual tension by having her close your eyes as you work your way around her body. Blindfold her for frisky fun.
As she lies flat, straddle her hips, and using your fingertips, circle her breasts and then her nipples, and then stroke down her abdomen. Repeat!
The more aroused you get, the more likely she’ll climax.
4. Pay Lip-service
Oral sex is becoming increasingly popular to help women climax. In fact 20% of couples use this as so many women find it tricky climaxing during full penetrative sex.
Perfect your oral technique using the method as above – ask her for feedback and to guide the pressure and friction you use with your lips and tongue.
5. Perfect Position No. 1
Believe it or not Doggy Style’s been found to work well with men on the smaller size. That’s because being on her knees and elbows, hips tilted upwards, naturally-tightens-up her vaginal muscles. It’ll give you more friction.
Get creative, reach one hand around her hips to gently tease her clitoral-zone.
6. Perfect Position No. 2
Definitely try the Reverse Missionary where she’s on top of you, her legs between yours. This way she gets a good squeeze on your penis.
Use very gentle thrusts to give her cracking-good clitoral stimulation! And you get lots too.
Finally, remember not to give yourself LRS - locker room syndrome. No sneaky peeks at other men when you’re changing for your Sunday morning footie. For all you know they’re ‘showers’ – men who change little when erect. Instead of ‘growers’.
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