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BITTER ON THE SIDE

‘I hate that he still has sex with his wife’: Women reveal the hot passion and the cold pain of being a married man’s mistress

'Other women' made their confessions on the secret-sharing site Whisper

Couple having sex

WE often hear of the pain and betrayal experienced by women whose partners cheat on them.

But now, using the secret-sharing website Whisper, 'other women' have opened up about the realities of being in a relationship with a married man - and it's not as easy as you might think.

This woman gets a kick out of being the 'other woman'
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This woman gets a kick out of being the 'other woman'Credit: Whisper
But this woman is plagued with jealousy
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But this woman is plagued with jealousyCredit: Whisper
This couple have been lucky to keep their relationship a secret
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This couple have been lucky to keep their relationship a secretCredit: Whisper
The tables have turned for this woman
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The tables have turned for this womanCredit: Whisper
This woman likes the lack of commitment
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This woman likes the lack of commitmentCredit: Whisper

While some women confess that they love the passion and secrets of being involved in an affair, others are disgusted by their situation - with one woman admitting she felt like her lover's 'prostitute'.

She said: "I am the woman and I was ok with that, till I started to feel like his prostitute."

This woman has set out to defend her reputation
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This woman has set out to defend her reputationCredit: Whisper
But this woman is disgusted by the truth
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But this woman is disgusted by the truthCredit: Whisper
This woman's feelings have changed
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This woman's feelings have changedCredit: Whisper
Guilt is often a feature in these kinds of relationships
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Guilt is often a feature in these kinds of relationshipsCredit: Whisper
However for some people it can be a turn-on
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However for some people it can be a turn-onCredit: Whisper

Meanwhile, another revealed that she's in fact jealous of her man's wife, writing: "I'm the "other woman" and I hate that he still has sex with his wife."

And some women took the opportunity to defend their reputation - insisting that being the other woman doesn't necessarily make them a bad person.

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One woman said: "I wish people would understand that being other woman doesn't always mean you are a home wrecking whore. Sometimes, it just means you fell in love."

Similarly, another confessed that she doesn't want to be the other woman, writing: "I say I'm ok being the "other woman"... I'm actually not, I'm just desperate to be loved I'll settle for being someone's affair."

Some 'other women' are kept in the dark too
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Some 'other women' are kept in the dark tooCredit: Whisper
Sometimes poor self-esteem can play a part
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Sometimes poor self-esteem can play a partCredit: Whisper
This woman's tale is particularly shocking
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This woman's tale is particularly shockingCredit: Whisper
This woman enjoys getting her revenge
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This woman enjoys getting her revengeCredit: Whisper
This woman has vowed to change her lifestyle
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This woman has vowed to change her lifestyleCredit: Whisper

But some confessions do fit the stereotype of the 'other woman' - with a few contributions showing no remorse whatsoever.

One woman said: "Being the other woman is hot... I get treated between than his wife and there's no feelings involved.

"Win win, everyone."

However, others reveal that in fact, being the other women isn't worth it at all.

Some women are able to admit their partners' flaws
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Some women are able to admit their partners' flawsCredit: Whisper
Some settle for being the 'other woman' even though they know it's wrong
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Some settle for being the 'other woman' even though they know it's wrongCredit: Whisper
This woman reveals that being the other woman can have its benefits
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This woman reveals that being the other woman can have its benefitsCredit: Whisper
However this woman would argue that it's just not worth it
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However this woman would argue that it's just not worth itCredit: Whisper
And this woman denies that she is to blame
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And this woman denies that she is to blameCredit: Whisper

Putting her role as the 'other woman' behind her once and for all, one said: "I can honestly say that being the other woman was the most stressful, complicated and lonely experience.

"But I could change it I wouldn't it, I wouldn't.

"Now I know what I deserve. I'm happy to have ended it."

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