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'There's no sex involved'

Meet Mistress Harley, the financial dominatrix men let blackmail and humiliate them for £3k a day

The dominatrix can control everything the men do online - even their banking

Dominatrix tells how she blackmails her clients’ by controlling their online activity

A MARRIED woman has ditched her day job to earn £3k per month to insult and blackmail horny men online – but her stay-at-home husband claims he's proud of her career swap.

Mistress Harley, 28, from San Francisco, USA, left her full-time office job as a technical project manager and now earns up to £3,000 a day from the comfort of her living room.

 Mistress Harley is now making so much cash her husband quit his job
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Mistress Harley is now making so much cash her husband quit his jobCredit: Caters News Agency

Charging £70 a session, Mistress Harley installs a desktop sharing software on her client's computer enabling her to take control of their social media and online banking.

This also gives her access to all of their personal information and blocks what they look at online.

The self-labelled tech domme uses the data she gathers to blackmail her clients and even uses their bank information to pay herself however much she likes, whenever she likes.

 Mistress spotted a new trend where men wanted to be blackmailed
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Mistress spotted a new trend where men wanted to be blackmailedCredit: Caters News Agency

Mistress Harley has been happily married to Mr Harley, 30, for two years and the pair have been on numerous luxury holidays courtesy of her new job.

Mistress Harley said: "I was fed up of working long hours, I wanted something more exciting and that's when I looked into ways to make money online.

"I was used to bossing around 20 men each day while project managing so when I came across ways to financially dominate men and realised how much they paid, I quickly kick-started my new career.

 The dominatrix doesn't even need to strip for her clients
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The dominatrix doesn't even need to strip for her clientsCredit: Caters News Agency

Her clients, who are mostly high earning businessmen, have even paid for her breast implants that cost a staggering £7,200.

Now her hubby no longer works and he take care of house duties including cooking, cleaning, and talking to their accountants and lawyers.

Mr Harley said: "I am so proud of my wife and the career she has chosen, being a house husband is the best job in the world.

"She makes so much money that it would be a waste of my time to work, I'd rather spend time with my wife at home and make sure she is looked after."

 Mistress worked as a tech project manager for five years
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Mistress worked as a tech project manager for five yearsCredit: Caters News Agency

But despite earning around £3,000 per day Mistress spends most of the money on her beauty routine, including regular hair and nail appointments that cost a total of £1,100 each time.

She also has a "weakness" for expensive designer shoes like Christian Louboutins and buys them regularly.

Mistress added: "It's amazing to know that I don't have to work hard to earn money, I am never stressed and I have everything that I have always wanted.

"I don't even take my clothes off for men, I just take their money, and it's very empowering."

 Big bucks: Mistress now lives the life she always wanted
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Big bucks: Mistress now lives the life she always wantedCredit: Caters News Agency

After five years of working as a project manager, Mistress Harley noticed there was a gap in the market and saw that blackmail was becoming a popular fetish.

By using her technical knowledge, gained from her master's degree in library science and information technology, she started her own business.

She continued: "I found clients that wanted to be dominated in a more permanent way and, through the software I install, I can control what sites they visit, add parental locks, access their bank details, the list is endless.

 Happy couple: the new career suits both Mistress and her hubby
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Happy couple: the new career suits both Mistress and her hubbyCredit: Caters News Agency

Mistress has around 20 regular clients while hundreds of different men visit her site and pay to download her video clips.

"Around 25 per cent of my customers are simply curious, it is often a one off for them and they mostly want to see what it's like to be financially dominated," she said.

"But people always come back and once they have had a taste they become addicted, men have even sent me their wives' designer clothes, they will do anything I say!"

 Keeping distance: Mistress never needs to meet her clients face-to-face
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Keeping distance: Mistress never needs to meet her clients face-to-faceCredit: Caters News Agency

The couple admit to spending a huge amount of money eating out regularly in San Francisco's finest restaurants, venturing on lavish holidays and enjoying designer goods.

Mistress Harley said: "My husband is comfortable with it as there is no sex involved and the risk is really minimal as I rarely leave the house.

"My mother is also one of the few people that know what I do and she is extremely proud, she told me that getting money out of men for doing nothing is one of the best things I could do.

"My clients actively seek me out and give me full permission to access their bank accounts, so I don't feel bad that I am taking their money, if I don't then someone else will."

 The couple spend most of their money on luxury holidays, eating out and beauty regimes
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The couple spend most of their money on luxury holidays, eating out and beauty regimesCredit: Caters News Agency
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