I’m having incredible sex with two older women… and one of them is my aunt
Dear Deidre
I’M having incredible sex with two older women, sometimes with them together.
I am addicted to both of them, although one is my aunt.
I’m 24 and when I was 19 my older brother got married.
My aunt — my mum’s younger sister — saw me sitting on my own at the disco
after the wedding and she asked me to dance.
She is a pretty woman with big breasts and held me close.
I became very aroused.
She said she needed to get something from her car and asked me to go with her.
As soon as we were away from the hotel we started kissing, then had sex in the
back of her car.
Afterwards she told me to go round to her house the next week, when her
husband was at work and we would have more time.
That was the start of an affair.
I knew deep down it was wrong and we stopped a year later, although neither of
us wanted to.
I eventually met someone else and moved in with her but sex with her was
nothing like sex with my aunt.
I split up with my girlfriend three months ago and my aunt texted me saying
she was always there if I needed someone to talk to.
I had a good idea she had more than a chat in mind.
She is 46 now but still very sexy.
I went to see her and she had a friend there who is 45 and married.
She’s a curvy woman too.
I poured my heart out to them and they both came over to give me a hug.
One thing led to another and we all ended up in bed together.
They are up for anything sexually and it was simply mind-blowing.
I can’t stay away and it has become a regular thing now.
I can’t get enough of them.
I visit both of them separately for sex as well as having sex with them
together.
They both know and are happy with it.
I do have opportunities with attractive women my own age but I seem to have a
thing for big-breasted older women.
DEIDRE SAYS: It is against the law to have sex with an aunt who is a
blood relation (your mother’s or your father’s sister).
Stop it immediately before someone else guesses the truth and it causes havoc
in the family, never mind getting you into trouble with the law.
There could be lots of reasons to do with your past (and maybe a poor
relationship with your mum) why curvy older women press your buttons but
this double fling is a dead end for you.
Both these women are married, so neither of them can make any genuine
commitment to you.
Having sex with them is keeping you hooked and stopping you from looking
around for someone who will be free to be with you and have amazing sex with
you.
Lover on side of groping brother
Dear Deidre
MY boyfriend has dumped me because his brother groped me – then believed his
brother over me.
We were at his mum’s place, having a drink.
My boyfriend and his brother got very drunk.
I’m 21, my boyfriend is 22 and the brother’s 29.
That evening I went into the kitchen and the brother followed me.
He grabbed me from behind and groped my boobs.
He pushed into me and clearly had an erection.
I tried to push him off but he turned me round and stuck his tongue in my
mouth.
I struggled free and phoned my mum.
She came to pick me up but my boyfriend punched her and gave me a black eye.
My boyfriend says I’m a liar and he never wants to see me again.
I’m heartbroken.
DEIDRE SAYS: You had a lucky escape.
Your boyfriend assaulted you and his brother sexually assaulted you.
Tell the police and ask your mum to report his assault on her.
You have had a horrible experience.
Contact Victim Support for understanding advice (,
0808 1689 111).
My e-leaflet for women who have suffered rape or assault will help you too.
Scary ex threats have me worried
Dear Deidre
MY former girlfriend is threatening to report me to the police and I’m
terrified.
I met her at school.
She was 12 and I was 14.
She is pretty and seemed fun.
We started dating when she left school at 16.
She’s 20 now and wants to get married and have babies.
I’m 22 and have got a place at a university 100 miles away.
When she heard this, she got very possessive.
She texts and emails constantly, demanding to see me.
She doesn’t want me to go to uni and says if I do, she’ll tell the police I
groomed her while we were at school.
She got really nasty and I finished with her but she can be extremely
determined.
I’m frightened she will go ahead.
I don’t know how to escape from this nightmare.
DEIDRE SAYS: Chances are she is bluffing but just in case, keep her
emails and texts as proof of what she is up to.
Tell her she is harassing and threatening you and you will contact the police
if she doesn’t stop.
The National Stalking Helpline can give you advice and support (,
0808 802 0300) while my e-leaflet on Standing Up For Yourself will help too.
Dear Deidre
MY fiancé makes me wait in a park when he collects his children. I feel
sidelined.
His two sons, aged 14 and 16, live with their mother.
I get on well with them and they come and stay with us every other weekend.
I’m 42 and my fiancé is 41. He divorced his wife five years ago and we have
been together for three years.
Since we got engaged, his ex-wife has taken a fierce dislike to me and banned
me from entering her home.
I’m angry about it but even more furious that my fiancé doesn’t support me.
He says it’s me she dislikes, not him, and he thinks I’m being unreasonable.
DEIDRE SAYS: It’s his decision to marry you she hates.
Don’t let her drive a wedge between you.
Suggest you wait at your home for him to bring them back – that way his
ex-wife can’t win.
Family Lives can offer support (,
0808 800 2222).
Dear Deidre
I’M single but my son won’t allow me to bring any men back home.
I have three children – a son of 20 and twin daughters of 16.
I divorced their dad two years ago but I am 38 and would like to find someone
else.
My son says he doesn’t want his sisters to see random men coming back to the
house and I must never bring a man back with me.
I feel I can’t get on with my life with him in the house.
I have asked him to move out but he is on a low wage and can’t afford a place
of his own or get housing benefit.
DEIDRE SAYS: Tell your son he can’t rule the household – you are
entitled to hope for another partner.
But for your own sake, take time to get to know a new man and find out whether
he is serious.
Only then introduce him to your children but don’t rush into having him to
stay overnight.
If they like him, it will be easier to take the next step.
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