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FOR years, Taylor Deanne Roy dismissed her shortness of breath and itchy skin as signs she was simply "getting older".

So when scans revealed that the 32-year-old actually had stage four cancer, her "whole world stopped".

Story from Jam Press (Cancer Warning Signs) Pictured: Taylor's home after the electrical fire that happened shortly before she was diagnosed with cancer. ‘I thought cancer symptoms were eczema for THREE YEARS - now I’m stage 4 and completely broken’ A 32-year-old woman who has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer says she ignored early signs because she thought they were part of “getting older” and eczema-related. Taylor Deanne Roy experienced extreme tiredness, shortness of breath and itchy skin for a couple of years before her “whole world stopped”. She had already been diagnosed with follicular eczema and she thought her random pains were nothing to worry about. But after discovering a large lump on her neck, she visited her doctor for an ultrasound. And when the results of a biopsy came back, doctors told Taylor that she had stage 4 Hodgkin's Lymphoma. The cancer had also spread to her lungs and the bones in her spine. “I have been struggling for three years with itchy skin that was diagnosed as follicular eczema,” Taylor, who is from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, told NeedToKnow. “For two years I had become extremely tired and out of shape but I thought it was just part of being older. “I started getting random pains that I blamed on myself. “The lump on my neck is when I finally began to be taken seriously. “On October 2 of this year [less than two months after finding the lump] I received my diagnosis for Stage 4 Hodgkin’s Lymphoma that had spread to my lungs and the bones in my spine. “The moment I was told I had cancer it was as if the whole world around me stopped. “I felt like nothing was real for a few minutes. “I said thank you and left and as I drove home I had a complete breakdown. “All I wanted was to be the best version of myself and to start a family of my own. “Now, at 32, I find myself in the fight of my life.” Taylor says she experiences “severe pain, nausea and exhaustion” all the time a
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Taylor Deann dismissed her cancer symptoms as signs of ageingCredit: Jam Press
Story from Jam Press (Cancer Warning Signs) Pictured: Taylor undergoing cancer treatment. ‘I thought cancer symptoms were eczema for THREE YEARS - now I’m stage 4 and completely broken’ A 32-year-old woman who has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer says she ignored early signs because she thought they were part of “getting older” and eczema-related. Taylor Deanne Roy experienced extreme tiredness, shortness of breath and itchy skin for a couple of years before her “whole world stopped”. She had already been diagnosed with follicular eczema and she thought her random pains were nothing to worry about. But after discovering a large lump on her neck, she visited her doctor for an ultrasound. And when the results of a biopsy came back, doctors told Taylor that she had stage 4 Hodgkin's Lymphoma. The cancer had also spread to her lungs and the bones in her spine. “I have been struggling for three years with itchy skin that was diagnosed as follicular eczema,” Taylor, who is from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, told NeedToKnow. “For two years I had become extremely tired and out of shape but I thought it was just part of being older. “I started getting random pains that I blamed on myself. “The lump on my neck is when I finally began to be taken seriously. “On October 2 of this year [less than two months after finding the lump] I received my diagnosis for Stage 4 Hodgkin’s Lymphoma that had spread to my lungs and the bones in my spine. “The moment I was told I had cancer it was as if the whole world around me stopped. “I felt like nothing was real for a few minutes. “I said thank you and left and as I drove home I had a complete breakdown. “All I wanted was to be the best version of myself and to start a family of my own. “Now, at 32, I find myself in the fight of my life.” Taylor says she experiences “severe pain, nausea and exhaustion” all the time and some days she struggles to get out of bed. She said: “My b
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She was shocked to be diagnosed with stage four cancerCredit: Jam Press
Story from Jam Press (Cancer Warning Signs) Pictured: Taylor undergoing cancer treatment. ‘I thought cancer symptoms were eczema for THREE YEARS - now I’m stage 4 and completely broken’ A 32-year-old woman who has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer says she ignored early signs because she thought they were part of “getting older” and eczema-related. Taylor Deanne Roy experienced extreme tiredness, shortness of breath and itchy skin for a couple of years before her “whole world stopped”. She had already been diagnosed with follicular eczema and she thought her random pains were nothing to worry about. But after discovering a large lump on her neck, she visited her doctor for an ultrasound. And when the results of a biopsy came back, doctors told Taylor that she had stage 4 Hodgkin's Lymphoma. The cancer had also spread to her lungs and the bones in her spine. “I have been struggling for three years with itchy skin that was diagnosed as follicular eczema,” Taylor, who is from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, told NeedToKnow. “For two years I had become extremely tired and out of shape but I thought it was just part of being older. “I started getting random pains that I blamed on myself. “The lump on my neck is when I finally began to be taken seriously. “On October 2 of this year [less than two months after finding the lump] I received my diagnosis for Stage 4 Hodgkin’s Lymphoma that had spread to my lungs and the bones in my spine. “The moment I was told I had cancer it was as if the whole world around me stopped. “I felt like nothing was real for a few minutes. “I said thank you and left and as I drove home I had a complete breakdown. “All I wanted was to be the best version of myself and to start a family of my own. “Now, at 32, I find myself in the fight of my life.” Taylor says she experiences “severe pain, nausea and exhaustion” all the time and some days she struggles to get out of bed. She said: “My b
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Doctors discovered the cancer had spread around her bodyCredit: Jam Press

“I had extreme tiredness, shortness of breath, itchy skin, and random pains for years, but I thought it was nothing to worry about," Taylor, who is from Alberta, Canada, explained.

Initially, Taylor would blame herself for all the pain she was in.

She had put her itchy skin down to follicular eczema, which she had been diagnosed with three years earlier.

“I had become extremely tired and out of shape but I thought it was just part of being older," she added.

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But after discovering a lump on her neck, she visited her doctor.

An ultrasound led to a biopsy, and soon after, doctors confirmed she had stage four Hodgkin's Lymphoma - a type of blood cancer that affects blood cells called lymphocytes.

Doctors discovered the cancer had also spread to her lungs and the bones in her spine.

“The moment I was told I had cancer, it was as if the whole world around me stopped,” she recalled.

“I felt like nothing was real for a few minutes. All I wanted was to be the best version of myself and start a family.

"Now, at 32, I’m in the fight of my life.”

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Taylor’s battle now includes “severe pain, nausea, and exhaustion” every day.

“My body is a stranger, betraying me in ways I never thought possible,” she said.

“Simple tasks that I once did without a second thought are now sometimes nearly impossible.

"The hardest part is losing the independence I worked so hard to build.”

Just months before her diagnosis, an electrical fire destroyed her home and all her belongings.

Despite the chaos, Taylor has been supported by her family and friends.

Story from Jam Press (Cancer Warning Signs) Pictured: Taylor showing her lump. ‘I thought cancer symptoms were eczema for THREE YEARS - now I’m stage 4 and completely broken’ A 32-year-old woman who has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer says she ignored early signs because she thought they were part of “getting older” and eczema-related. Taylor Deanne Roy experienced extreme tiredness, shortness of breath and itchy skin for a couple of years before her “whole world stopped”. She had already been diagnosed with follicular eczema and she thought her random pains were nothing to worry about. But after discovering a large lump on her neck, she visited her doctor for an ultrasound. And when the results of a biopsy came back, doctors told Taylor that she had stage 4 Hodgkin's Lymphoma. The cancer had also spread to her lungs and the bones in her spine. “I have been struggling for three years with itchy skin that was diagnosed as follicular eczema,” Taylor, who is from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, told NeedToKnow. “For two years I had become extremely tired and out of shape but I thought it was just part of being older. “I started getting random pains that I blamed on myself. “The lump on my neck is when I finally began to be taken seriously. “On October 2 of this year [less than two months after finding the lump] I received my diagnosis for Stage 4 Hodgkin’s Lymphoma that had spread to my lungs and the bones in my spine. “The moment I was told I had cancer it was as if the whole world around me stopped. “I felt like nothing was real for a few minutes. “I said thank you and left and as I drove home I had a complete breakdown. “All I wanted was to be the best version of myself and to start a family of my own. “Now, at 32, I find myself in the fight of my life.” Taylor says she experiences “severe pain, nausea and exhaustion” all the time and some days she struggles to get out of bed. She said: “My body is a s
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The now 32-year-old visited a doctor after discovering a lump on her neckCredit: Jam Press
Story from Jam Press (Cancer Warning Signs) Pictured: Taylor undergoing cancer treatment. ‘I thought cancer symptoms were eczema for THREE YEARS - now I’m stage 4 and completely broken’ A 32-year-old woman who has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer says she ignored early signs because she thought they were part of “getting older” and eczema-related. Taylor Deanne Roy experienced extreme tiredness, shortness of breath and itchy skin for a couple of years before her “whole world stopped”. She had already been diagnosed with follicular eczema and she thought her random pains were nothing to worry about. But after discovering a large lump on her neck, she visited her doctor for an ultrasound. And when the results of a biopsy came back, doctors told Taylor that she had stage 4 Hodgkin's Lymphoma. The cancer had also spread to her lungs and the bones in her spine. “I have been struggling for three years with itchy skin that was diagnosed as follicular eczema,” Taylor, who is from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, told NeedToKnow. “For two years I had become extremely tired and out of shape but I thought it was just part of being older. “I started getting random pains that I blamed on myself. “The lump on my neck is when I finally began to be taken seriously. “On October 2 of this year [less than two months after finding the lump] I received my diagnosis for Stage 4 Hodgkin’s Lymphoma that had spread to my lungs and the bones in my spine. “The moment I was told I had cancer it was as if the whole world around me stopped. “I felt like nothing was real for a few minutes. “I said thank you and left and as I drove home I had a complete breakdown. “All I wanted was to be the best version of myself and to start a family of my own. “Now, at 32, I find myself in the fight of my life.” Taylor says she experiences “severe pain, nausea and exhaustion” all the time and some days she struggles to get out of bed. She said: “My b
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An ultrasound led to a biopsy, and soon after, doctors confirmed she had Hodgkin's Lymphoma - a type of blood cancerCredit: Jam Press
Story from Jam Press (Cancer Warning Signs) Pictured: Taylor undergoing cancer treatment. ‘I thought cancer symptoms were eczema for THREE YEARS - now I’m stage 4 and completely broken’ A 32-year-old woman who has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer says she ignored early signs because she thought they were part of “getting older” and eczema-related. Taylor Deanne Roy experienced extreme tiredness, shortness of breath and itchy skin for a couple of years before her “whole world stopped”. She had already been diagnosed with follicular eczema and she thought her random pains were nothing to worry about. But after discovering a large lump on her neck, she visited her doctor for an ultrasound. And when the results of a biopsy came back, doctors told Taylor that she had stage 4 Hodgkin's Lymphoma. The cancer had also spread to her lungs and the bones in her spine. “I have been struggling for three years with itchy skin that was diagnosed as follicular eczema,” Taylor, who is from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, told NeedToKnow. “For two years I had become extremely tired and out of shape but I thought it was just part of being older. “I started getting random pains that I blamed on myself. “The lump on my neck is when I finally began to be taken seriously. “On October 2 of this year [less than two months after finding the lump] I received my diagnosis for Stage 4 Hodgkin’s Lymphoma that had spread to my lungs and the bones in my spine. “The moment I was told I had cancer it was as if the whole world around me stopped. “I felt like nothing was real for a few minutes. “I said thank you and left and as I drove home I had a complete breakdown. “All I wanted was to be the best version of myself and to start a family of my own. “Now, at 32, I find myself in the fight of my life.” Taylor says she experiences “severe pain, nausea and exhaustion” all the time and some days she struggles to get out of bed. She said: “My b
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Taylor now shares her story on TikTok, hoping to raise awareness and help othersCredit: Jam Press

“They’ve shown up in every way they can,” she said.

“From donations to making food, sending me onesies to replace the ones I lost, and helping with daily tasks—they’ve done everything. I’m beyond broken—physically, mentally, financially.

"I’ve reached a point where I need to ask for help because sometimes, no matter how strong we try to be, we can’t do it alone.”

'Advocate for yourself'

Taylor now shares her story on TikTok, hoping to raise awareness and help others.

Reflecting on the symptoms she ignored, she said, “I wish I had mentioned them to my doctor sooner.

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"If I had been more pushy with doctors, I wouldn’t be stage 4 right now.”

Taylor’s message is clear: “Advocate for yourself and don’t give up when doctors don’t listen.”

Story from Jam Press (Cancer Warning Signs) Pictured: Taylor undergoing cancer treatment. ‘I thought cancer symptoms were eczema for THREE YEARS - now I’m stage 4 and completely broken’ A 32-year-old woman who has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer says she ignored early signs because she thought they were part of “getting older” and eczema-related. Taylor Deanne Roy experienced extreme tiredness, shortness of breath and itchy skin for a couple of years before her “whole world stopped”. She had already been diagnosed with follicular eczema and she thought her random pains were nothing to worry about. But after discovering a large lump on her neck, she visited her doctor for an ultrasound. And when the results of a biopsy came back, doctors told Taylor that she had stage 4 Hodgkin's Lymphoma. The cancer had also spread to her lungs and the bones in her spine. “I have been struggling for three years with itchy skin that was diagnosed as follicular eczema,” Taylor, who is from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, told NeedToKnow. “For two years I had become extremely tired and out of shape but I thought it was just part of being older. “I started getting random pains that I blamed on myself. “The lump on my neck is when I finally began to be taken seriously. “On October 2 of this year [less than two months after finding the lump] I received my diagnosis for Stage 4 Hodgkin’s Lymphoma that had spread to my lungs and the bones in my spine. “The moment I was told I had cancer it was as if the whole world around me stopped. “I felt like nothing was real for a few minutes. “I said thank you and left and as I drove home I had a complete breakdown. “All I wanted was to be the best version of myself and to start a family of my own. “Now, at 32, I find myself in the fight of my life.” Taylor says she experiences “severe pain, nausea and exhaustion” all the time and some days she struggles to get out of bed. She said: “My b
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She is calling on others to not give up when doctors don't listenCredit: Jam Press

What is Hodgkin lymphoma?

HODGKIN lymphoma is a type of blood cancer that starts in white blood cells called lymphocytes.

It is not common, with around 2,100 people diagnosed every year in the UK.

Like all cancers, symptoms vary and can be vague. However, patients usually notice swelling in one or more lymph nodes.

This can be in any area of the body, but is often in the neck, armpit or groin.

The swelling is usually painless, although some people find that it aches.

Some people with Hodgkin lymphoma also have other more general symptoms. These can include:

  • Night sweats
  • Unintentional weight loss
  • A high temperature (fever)
  • A persistent cough or feeling of breathlessness
  • Persistent itching of the skin all over the body

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