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Male bravado meant I ignored cancer warning sign – don’t make my mistake, says First Dates star Merlin Griffiths

"PLEASE learn from my mistakes - get tested and don’t be embarrassed,” First Dates barman Merlin Griffiths, tells the Sun.

Laughing down the phone, the Channel 4 star has lost none of that charm he radiates through our screens on the dating show - despite his grim diagnosis. 

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"I tried to convince myself that the pain just wasn't important," Merlin explains.Credit: Channel 4
Merlin has gone through a series of gruelling treatments including chemotherapy, radiotherapy and robotic surgery to removed the cancer itself.Credit: Instagram

Merlin says: “You never really realise how common cancer is until it happens to you.” 

The 47-year-old bartender - who chats to the daters while they wait at the bar for their match in the hit show - was diagnosed with bowel cancer in August 2021

Bowel cancer is the second deadliest form of the disease in the UK, claiming 16,000 lives every year.

But, caught early it can be cured - and screening is a vital part in the early diagnosis puzzle.

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After ignoring typical symptoms of the disease for several months, Merlin’s cancer had reached stage 3 by the time he saw doctors.

The much loved star was given a 75 per cent chance of living beyond five years.

"Toxic masculinity"

When asked why he delayed seeing a GP, Merlin admits he had let classic male bravado "get in the way".

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"It was that typical male reticence thing of going - 'oh I'm fine', 'it's nothing really', 'I'll be alright.'"

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to an unhealthy and unrealistic archetypal image of what it means to be masculine.

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