Why do I keep waking up at night and how to get back to sleep?
IT'S the dark, it's 3am, your eyes are wide open and you're struggling to fall back asleep for seemingly no reason.
Sound familiar?
Well, that's because waking up during the night isn’t uncommon.
A US study in found that about a third of adults wake up in the night at least three times a week.
And over 40 per cent of that group might have trouble falling asleep again.
The daunting prospect of your alarm time getting closer makes the situation significantly more stressful - which makes it harder again to nod off.
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So why do you wake up in the night, and how can you get back to sleep?
Experts say that when we sleep, we go through several 90-minute cycles.
These cycles contain different stages of sleep. In the latter part, you go into a lighter sleep.
You are much more likely to wake up to the slightest noise, such as a car driving past, or your partner moving slightly, sleep expert Dr Neil Stanley, ex-chairman of the British Sleep Society, told .
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In the morning, it is unlikely you'll remember all the times you were roused in the night.
But for the unfortunate few, it's not as easy as "turning over" and nodding off again.
Greg Murray, professor and director of the Centre for Mental Health, Swinburne University of Technology, explained this is typical between 3-4am.
As the body prepares for morning, core body temperature and wakeful hormones start to rise, while sleep drive is reducing, he wrote in The .
Prof Murray said: “Add a bit of stress and there is a good chance that waking will become a fully self-aware state."
He said in the hours before dawn, we are more likely to end up “catastrophising” because it is dark and lonely - no one or nothing is there to distract you.
Here are some tips, shared by sleep experts, to help you get back into the land of nod:
1. Avoid toilet breaks if you can
You may think a quick loo break to relieve your bladder will help you nod back of.
But Dr Michael Breus, a clinical psychologist, told that you should stay exactly where you are.
This is because if you leave the warmth of your bed, your heart has to pump more blood around the body.
A low resting heart rate is needed to fall asleep. Therefore, a toilet trip is doing the opposite of what you need.
Instead, make sure you go to the loo before you head to bed.
2. Stop clock-watching
You may sometimes feel the urge to check the time on your phone when you're unable to sleep.
But Dr Michael said to avoid checking your phone at all costs, as the anxiety of watching the clock can keep you awake longer.
Experts say if you still haven't fallen asleep within what feels like 15 minutes, you should get out of bed.
: “There’s no need to clock-watch though; just estimate quarter-of-an-hour."
Dr Bryony Sheaves and Professor Colin Espie at the University of Oxford said you can return to bed once you feel sleepy, to avoid associating it with feeling awake and anxious.
3. Ditch the booze
Some people swear by a night cap to help them relax before bed.
But booze can ruin the quality of your sleep, which will cause you to have more disturbances through the night.
That's because alcohol blocks tryptophan - an amino acid that helps you sleep - from getting to the brain.
Professor Malcolm von Schantz, from the University of Surrey, says: "Alcohol has a weird effect in that it makes it easier to fall asleep, but it makes it harder to stay asleep and it affects the quality of our sleep."
4. Shut pets away
As nice and it can be to have a nice fluffy animal to cuddle up to, experts say you shouldn't have your pets in the bed.
They can rob us of those vital zzzzs - not just because they fidget about, but also because of fur shedding.
On top of this, sleeping with a furry friend can also aggravate allergies or asthma in those susceptible to it.
How much sleep do I need for my age?
The :
- Newborns (0-3 months): Sleep range narrowed to 14-17 hours (previously 12-18)
- Infants (4-11 months): Sleep range widened two hours 12-15 hours (previously 14-15)
- Toddlers (1-2 years): Sleep range widened one hour 11-14 hours (previously 12-14)
- Preschoolers (3-5): Sleep ranged widened by one hour to 10-13 hours (previously 11-13)
- School age children (6-13): Sleep range widened by one hour to 9-11 hours (previously it was 10-11)
- Teenagers (14-17): Sleep range widened by one hour to 8-10 hours (previously it was 8.5-9.5)
- Younger adults (18-25): Sleep range is 7-9 hours (new age category)
- Adults (26-64): Sleep range did not change and remains 7-9 hours
- Older adults (65+): Sleep range is 7-8 hours (new age category)
5. Cool down
You might feel like having a warm, cosy house is one of the only comforts in the colder months – but this can actually disrupt sleep.
This is because central heating systems dry out the mucous membranes, making you more thirsty during the night.
Dr Neil says the optimum temperature for a good night is 18C or lower.
We need to lose around 1C of our internal body temperature, which sits at around 37C - to drift off.
If you're in a room that's too warm, your body can't dump that excess heat - and that means that your sleep will be disturbed.
Turn the heating off in your bedroom and instead use duvets, blankets and breathable bed linen to help regulate your body temperature.
6. Quieten your mind
To help remedy this, recommends trying meditation.
It says: "Learning to quiet your mind can be a helpful skill, both for navigating stressful daytime periods, and for falling asleep at night.
"If you’ve never tried it, start with as little as a couple minutes of sitting quietly and focusing on your inhale and exhale.
"You can also explore apps that will help guide you."
It also recommend taking on more exercise as regular exercisers tend to fall asleep quicker and sleep more soundly.
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