MAKING WAVES | MISSIONARY is known to be one of the world's most popular sexual positions. But it's nice to spice things up every now and then.
If you're looking to mix things up in the bedroom, the seashell could be just what you need - small adjustments make a lot of difference when it comes to this sex position.
What is the seashell sex position?
The seashell is a sex position that gets its name from how the receiver's body bends like a shell.
According to experts, it's a good way to achieve deeper penetration and gives their partner total access.
To perform this position, the receiver needs to lie on their back, with their legs stretched as far back as possible.
Ideally, they should be by your ears. But if you're trying this out, make sure you only go as far back as you're comfortable with.
Once the receiver is in position, their partner can lie on top, supported by their arms.
With this position, the partner on top can change how they enter the partner on the bottom depending on what feels good.
As with everything relating to sex, communication is key.
Talking with your partner if attempting the seashell ensures they're being penetrated at the right angle for them.
If there's a woman on the bottom, the partner could hit their cervix due to the deep penetration this position allows.
This may be uncomfortable for some but pleasurable for others.
Are there variations of the seashell sex position?
A variation in how the partner on top enters their receiving partner can make a mind-blowing difference in this position.
The reciever is able to direct their partner on what feels comfortable and get them to enter from a different angle, depending on what feels best.
The seashell position also leaves the receiver hands free, meaning they can stimulate themselves or introduce some toys to turn things up a gear.
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There are a number of ways to switch up the seashell, including the receiving partner holding their feet to stabilise themselves, similar to the "happy baby" yoga pose.
The partner on the bottom could also put a pillow under their hips and cross their ankles for deeper penetration.
You could also try the "half shell", where the receiving partner lifts only one leg.
Another variation is just tucking the legs into the stomach, rather than lifting them all the way up to the ears.
Is the seashell sex position safe?
The seashell is generally a safe position.
As with any sexual activity, make sure that you and your partner are only doing what you're both comfortable with.
There is always the possibility of pulling a muscle, especially since this position requires quite a bit of flexibility on the receiver's part.
If you're thinking about trying out the seashell you might want to stretch and make sure that the placing of the legs feels comfortable for you ahead of time.
Other positions include the cowboy, the spreadeagle, and the wheelbarrow.