How much should you really spend on an engagement ring?
An engagement ring is a symbol of love and commitment in a relationship
POPPING the question is one of the most nerve-racking experiences, but if the answer is yes, it can be one of the most exciting times too.
With so much attention lavished on the engagement ring, we take a look at how much should ideally be spent on this token of love.
What is an engagement ring?
An engagement ring is a symbol of love and commitment in a relationship, and acts as a promise of marriage.
The ring is traditionally given to a woman by a man following a marriage proposal.
In the USA, Canada and the UK it is customarily worn on the left hand ring finger, while in Poland the engagement ring and wedding band are traditionally worn on the right hand.
In Turkey, the engagement ring is worn on the right hand until the wedding day, when it moves to the left with the wedding band.
These are:
- Colour
- Clarity
- Carat
- Cut
Diamonds naturally vary in colour with the majority of them on the market being sold as near colourless.
Using the GIA (Gemological Institute of America) scale of colour, diamonds are graded from D, the least colour, all the way through the alphabet to Z, diamonds with a light yellow colour.
Truly colourless diamonds (D) are treasured for their rarity.
As fashion trends evolve, coloured diamonds are becoming increasingly more popular and valuable.
The clarity scale reminds us that it is fairly common for diamonds to have natural flaws and they are rarely perfect.
These are known as nature's "fingerprints" or "birthmarks" and can look like tiny crystals, clouds or feathers.
The beauty of a diamond is generally not greatly affected by inclusions as they can be hidden by the setting or the mount.
There are two main bodies that set these clarity scales - the GIA (Gemmological Institute of America) and the CIBJO (International Confederation of Jewellery Silverware and Diamonds).
Diamonds are measured in carats, which take into account the weight rather than size.
Outsized carat weights are rarer and more precious, and carats are split into points where 100 points are equal to one carat.
What are the alternatives to a diamond ring?
Sometimes, it is nicer to give rather than something expensive to the one you love.
Family heirlooms are always a great option, and will ensure your partner feels part of your rich history.
Alternatively, opt for a different stone like a birthstone, or even multi-coloured stones for a more art deco feel.
If you still want that diamond feel without the extra-large price tag, opt for a man-made diamond known as cubic zirconia, but ensure that your partner is fully on board with this.
For those with Irish roots, a Claddagh ring is a great option, as it symbolises friendship, love and loyalty and were used as engagement rings during the Middle Ages and the Renaissance.