How much should you really spend on an engagement ring?
An engagement ring is a symbol of love and commitment in a relationship
POPPING the question is one of the most nerve-racking experiences, but if the answer is yes, it can be one of the most exciting times too.
With so much attention lavished on the engagement ring, we take a look at how much should ideally be spent on this token of love.
What is an engagement ring?
An engagement ring is a symbol of love and commitment in a relationship, and acts as a promise of marriage.
The ring is traditionally given to a woman by a man following a marriage proposal.
In the USA, Canada and the UK it is customarily worn on the left hand ring finger, while in Poland the engagement ring and wedding band are traditionally worn on the right hand.
In Turkey, the engagement ring is worn on the right hand until the wedding day, when it moves to the left with the wedding band.
In some South American countries like Brazil and Argentina, both men and women will wear a plain gold or silver band on their right hand as a symbol of engagement which is moved to the left hand after marriage.
How much is traditionally spent on an engagement ring?
Traditionally, it is expected that around two and a half months’ salary will be spent on the engagement ring – but for many people out there, clinging to this belief can prove to be the first hurdle.
According to , that two month rule that has people sweating was actually coined by a De Beers diamond marketer and is best forgotten about.
In reality, it is best to consider your partner's expectations and balance them against your actual financial situation, as purchasing that "dream ring" should not plunge you into unimaginable debt.
How do you decide how much to spend?
There are a number of factors that should be taken into consideration when purchasing the ring.
These include:
- Your current income
- Your current expenses
- Your savings
- Your debts
- Your future earning potential
It is also wise to shop around – just because it’s an engagement ring doesn’t mean you can’t look for discounts or bargain offers out there.
Also remember, than buying a ring with lots of smaller stones.
What are the 4 Cs of diamond buying?
According to jewellers , a diamond’s value, rarity and beauty are determined by factors commonly known as the 4 Cs.
These are:
- Colour
- Clarity
- Carat
- Cut
Diamonds naturally vary in colour with the majority of them on the market being sold as near colourless.
Using the GIA (Gemological Institute of America) scale of colour, diamonds are graded from D, the least colour, all the way through the alphabet to Z, diamonds with a light yellow colour.
Truly colourless diamonds (D) are treasured for their rarity.
As fashion trends evolve, coloured diamonds are becoming increasingly more popular and valuable.
The clarity scale reminds us that it is fairly common for diamonds to have natural flaws and they are rarely perfect.
These are known as nature's "fingerprints" or "birthmarks" and can look like tiny crystals, clouds or feathers.
The beauty of a diamond is generally not greatly affected by inclusions as they can be hidden by the setting or the mount.
There are two main bodies that set these clarity scales - the GIA (Gemmological Institute of America) and the CIBJO (International Confederation of Jewellery Silverware and Diamonds).
Diamonds are measured in carats, which take into account the weight rather than size.
Outsized carat weights are rarer and more precious, and carats are split into points where 100 points are equal to one carat.
- ½ carat diamond – 50 point or 0.50 carat diamond
- ¼ carat diamond – 25 point or 0.25 carat diamond
When there is more than one diamond on a piece of jewellery such as on a diamond cluster ring or a three stone pendant, the stones are weighed together rather than individually.
The carat weight does not reflect the size of a diamond and therefore a stone may appear bigger but may weigh less.
The cut of a diamond is sometimes seen as the most important factor to consider, as this is where the sparkle factor comes in to play.
According to , to maximise your budget, it is best to choose the highest diamond cut grade your budget allows.
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What are the alternatives to a diamond ring?
Sometimes, it is nicer to give rather than something expensive to the one you love.
Family heirlooms are always a great option, and will ensure your partner feels part of your rich history.
Alternatively, opt for a different stone like a birthstone, or even multi-coloured stones for a more art deco feel.
If you still want that diamond feel without the extra-large price tag, opt for a man-made diamond known as cubic zirconia, but ensure that your partner is fully on board with this.
For those with Irish roots, a Claddagh ring is a great option, as it symbolises friendship, love and loyalty and were used as engagement rings during the Middle Ages and the Renaissance.