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Mum tries to make a geode crystal cake for her son’s sixth birthday – but it ends up looking like a ‘sparkly vagina’

The grown-ups at little Finlay's party were left stifling their giggles...

A mum committed an ‘epic baking fail’ when the cake she lovingly made for her son’s sixth birthday ended up looking like a ‘sparkly vagina’ – rather than a geode crystal.

Mum-of-two Kate Kirven, from Oxted, Surrey, painstakingly crafted the gold vanilla sponge cake for her crystal-obsessed son Finlay Kirven on Monday.

 Finlay loved his birthday cake - but the adults noticed something rather rude about it
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Finlay loved his birthday cake - but the adults noticed something rather rude about itCredit: Mercury Press

Kate spent two hours making and decorating the geode masterpiece which featured a split on one side decorated with gold, black and white sugar crystals.

It was only when the 36-year-old stood back to take a picture that she realised her X-rated mistake.

Little Finlay was delighted with his cake and despite family members struggling to stifle giggles when he blew out the candles Finlay failed to notice the blunder.

Kate said: “I was in the kitchen baking away and it didn’t occur to me what it looked like."

 Kate admitted she was so in 'the zone' making her boy's cake she didn't stop to think what it looked like
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Kate admitted she was so in 'the zone' making her boy's cake she didn't stop to think what it looked likeCredit: Mercury Press
 Happily Finlay, pictured with his cake, didn't realise the adults were giggling when the cake was presented to him
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Happily Finlay, pictured with his cake, didn't realise the adults were giggling when the cake was presented to him

She continued: “I was in the zone and so involved in what I was doing trying to get the crystals to stay put. It was quite intricate work so I didn’t take a proper look.

“I stepped back to take a picture to send to my husband and I suddenly realised what it looked like. I was like ‘oh heck’.

“I thought I was making Finlay a geode and then I thought ‘oh no I’ve made him a sparkly vagina’.

“My husband had a laugh and said ‘it will be fine, he won’t know what it is’.

“Finlay was delighted, he didn’t know what it was. He’s only six so he thought I’d made him a cake of his favourite rock – he thought it was brilliant.

“When he’s 18 he might look at it differently.”

 Finlay, pictured with his mum Kate, is a huge fan of rocks - hence the special geode cake
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Finlay, pictured with his mum Kate, is a huge fan of rocks - hence the special geode cakeCredit: Mercury Press

Kate, who runs her own face painting business, baked the cake on Monday and invited family members over to celebrate Finlay’s birthday after he finished school.

Kate said: “We had my dad, my husband’s mum and family members coming round to see him and the idea was to bring the cake out.

“I did warn my family what it looked like. My dad would have been in hysterics if I hadn’t told him. I showed it to him and he just looked at me and I said ‘don’t say anything’.

“They were all trying to stifle giggles while we sang ‘happy birthday’.

“Finlay didn’t have a clue, he thought it was brilliant. It was gold and sparkly – everything he wished for.

“I didn’t try it as I’m coeliac but apparently it tasted great.”

 For his birthday party he is getting a penguin cake - which hopefully won't look so rude
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For his birthday party he is getting a penguin cake - which hopefully won't look so rudeCredit: Mercury Press
 Finlay loves rocks - and his mum, Kate, wanted to do something special to mark this... with unexpected results
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Finlay loves rocks - and his mum, Kate, wanted to do something special to mark this... with unexpected resultsCredit: Mercury Press

Kate, who lives with marketing consultant husband John Kirven, 38, and three-year-old son Alexander, said for the past year Finlay’s been ‘obsessed’ with crystals and precious stones.

Kate said: “I thought it would be cool to make him a geode cake.

“He likes things that are rare and a bit special. He has his own collection and he likes to look up the stones in his crystal bible – he finds it really interesting.

“On Monday he was at school so I thought I’d surprise him. I just had an idea and did a bit of internet research and saw some examples so thought I would do something like that and obviously it didn’t turn out the way I’d hoped.

“It’s a good job I didn’t have to go into school with it – the teachers would have been horrified."

 The cake raised some eyebrows and people have been commenting after she shared a snap on social media
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The cake raised some eyebrows and people have been commenting after she shared a snap on social mediaCredit: Mercury Press

She added: “His proper birthday party is at the weekend so I’m really glad it wasn’t his cake for that party.

“Could you imagine bringing that thing out in a room full of school mums? There’d be uproar.

“I’m planning to make another cake for his party but this one is going to be of a penguin – hopefully that will turn out okay.

“I keep giggling about it. I shared a picture of it on social media and I keep getting notifications about it.

“I thought it might give a couple of people a laugh but it’s had thousands of likes.

“It was my first attempt at that particular cake. I usually make one for every birthday and this is the first one that’s been an epic fail.

“I’m planning on showing him the picture when he’s older. It’s definitely one to bring out for his 18th birthday.”

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