Men explain why they like ‘cuckolding’ – watching their partner have sex with someone else
Some men believe it spices their relationship up
USUALLY, even just the thought of infidelity or sleeping with someone else enrages couples with jealousy and envy.
But for some men, the act of watching their wife effectively cheating is actually something they enjoy.
Apparently, "cuckolding" - which is watching your partner have sex with someone else - is increasing in popularity.
The fetish mainly applies to married couples who enjoy watching their spouse engage in sexual activity.
The term cuckolding was originally a phrase used for men whose wives had sex with other men.
This, in turn, stems from the cuckoo bird, which has a tendency to lay its eggs in another bird's nest.
A recent study showed that more people are trying out cuckolding.
The asked a few men via an anonymous sex app called Whiplr why they like cuckolding.
One of these men included Simon, 29, an IT consultant from London - who likes to watch his girlfriend have sex with other men.
He said: "I’ve been into cuckolding for a while and do it with my girlfriend.
"What I like most is the feeling of helplessness. I guess that’s the turn-on, watching my girlfriend being taken by another man in front of me. I’m very dominant when we’re alone, but when another man joins us, I’m the cuck."
"But I don’t interact with the man, it’s more about watching them.
"It’s made us more passionate as a couple, although we have rules while we do it. Newbies who are starting out should take it slow and not dive in head-first. Things can go awfully wrong if the couple aren’t sure they would like it."
Harry, 55, a banker also from London prefers to cuckold the other way around.
He told the Metro: "I enjoy being the man invited to please a wife in front of her hubby. A few days ago, I visited a couple and was there for several hours.
"This particular husband is bisexual and will watch, as well as give me oral sex.
"He especially likes the humiliation of seeing his wife enjoy sex with another man. Sometimes, he’ll also be allowed to have sex with her."
Jerobi, 28, explained via the sex app that he enjoyed feeling humiliated by the act.
"The main reason I like cuckolding is because it’s completely backwards and doesn’t make any sense. I like the rejection and the humiliation."
"Once you get the girl of your dreams, you’re bored. The best way to keep it spicy is by letting her turn you down.
"And what better way for her to do that, than to have sex with another man right in front of you?"
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