Dr Pam Spurr reveals 12 sizzling festive sex positions to put some spice into the holiday season
Give the gift that keeps on giving: a Santa-sized sack full of new positions to try!
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I’d bet the contents of my Christmas stocking if you’re coupled-up you’ve already lost that festive feeling.
Rows about who’s doing the most, whose family you dread the most and who’s drunk the most, crush the Christmas spirit.
And if you’re in a new relationship, you’re fretting how to make your first Christmas sex-tra special.
With research showing couples quickly slip into using one favoured sex position (boring!) give the gift that keeps on giving: a Santa-sized sack full of new positions to try!
Here are the 12 lays of Christmas:
The Sexy Sleigh – He lies flat on his back, she’s on top, facing her partner with his legs between hers.
She shimmies upwards on his pubic bone a centimetre or two so her clitoral region rubs his pubic bone during full sex.
He’s her ‘sleigh’ and she’s going to ride him! She can move/grind her clitoris against his pubic bone in the way she likes best. Slow and gentle. Or small and circular movements with her hips.
The perfect position-gift for women who find it hard to climax.
The Naughty Noel – He sits back in an armchair or sofa. Undressed at least from the waist down.
Great if you’ve been making mischief under the mistletoe on the sofa.
She sits back onto him, her back to his chest, straddling his legs.
He can only move gently and sensually but he can definitely get naughty with his hands reaching around her waist to caress her clitoral zone and/or breasts.
The Partridge in Her Pear Tree - She stands facing a wall, leaning on it with her hands. Her hands are slightly higher than her head, forming a tree shape.
Now the ‘partridge’ enters from behind for red hot thrusting. If she keeps her heels on it makes entry easier. He can steady her with his hands wrapped around her waist.
The Erotica Elf - He lies on his side, behind her. She’s also on her side with her back to him. So he snuggles into the curve of her back and bottom.
Lifting her upper leg allows him to penetrate. But this is where the elf gets erotic - he can wrap his arm around her stomach and let his fingers wander around her pleasure zones.
While he thrusts from behind he tantalises her around the front.
The Sensual Snowman - Another position with her on top. Lying chest against chest she draws her legs up underneath her so her knees are bent. As if she's cradling his body with her body.
This is perfect for slow and sexy thrusting from him. Plus it allows the snowman to reach around her hips and sensually touch all around her bum and down her inner thighs.
The Hot Holly - She lies on her back, while he crouches on his knees between her legs. She then rests one leg on his shoulder so it requires some flexibility on her part.
He shimmies up to her pleasure-zone, pulling her hips up onto - and slightly between – his thighs. He holds her thighs and hips to stabilise the action and not slip out.
Most men love the view of her hot holly bush in this position!
The Luscious Lapland – Here’s the gift of one red hot oral sex position! She lies on her back, legs relaxed apart.
He lies stomach down on the bed, up on his elbows, his face sideways across her pubic zone/stomach.
He places one hand on her pubic mound. His other hand’s free to explore between her legs. His tongue action is sideways across her clitoral zone - he can kiss and lick across it.
Gives fantastic and highly teasing sensations compared to classic oral sex given between her legs.
The Adventurous Advent - Again requiring some flexibility and fitness but what adventure doesn’t?
She lies on her back and brings both her knees towards her chest. He moves in on top of her but raised on his hands.
She can then rest her feet either side of his chest or on top of his shoulders if she's flexible. He thrusts sexily and playfully varying their sensations.
The Saucy Santa - Lie on your sides facing each other, holding each other. She lifts her upper thigh to allow him to slide in.
Such a slow and sexy position where you shower each other with sweet, seasonal snogs across the face, the neck and behind the ears as you gently move together.
The Sizzling Star – She’s sits astride him but facing his feet. If he’s a bum-man hers becomes the star of the show!
She varies sensations by leaning forward or sitting upright. He can hold her hips to help her wiggle around on him. And move up and down gently on him.
The Randy Rudolph - A seasonal variation on ‘Doggy’ style where she kneels on the floor resting her hands on the sofa or bed edge.
He kneels behind her and takes her. He can reach his arms around her to play with her breasts, stomach or clitoral region.
Ten Lords a Leaping - A semi-standing position. She faces the back of an armchair or kitchen counter or table, and bends over it.
Opening her legs, he moves in from behind. He can begin slow and steady movements, but then leap into action with faster thrusting.
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