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Monopoly is banned and unmarried women can’t wear tiaras… these are the 12 weirdest rules the royal family have to follow

THE DUCHESS of Cambridge might make it look easy, but becoming a member of the royal family is a complicated business.

Not least because there are hundreds of points of etiquette and codes of conduct to remember – and some of them are quite bizarre.

 The Duchess of Cambridge is a natural but there were a lot of rules to learn when she married into the royal family
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The Duchess of Cambridge is a natural but there were a lot of rules to learn when she married into the royal familyCredit: Getty - Contributor

There are rules governing how and what you eat, what you wear and when and even what games you play at the family gatherings.

Even the children’s outfits are subject to strict dress codes which is why you always see Prince George in tailored shorts and never in long trousers.

In fact, there too many Royal rules to list them all, so we have picked a selection of our favourites.

Hats are off at 6pm

Women must wear hats at all formal occasions, providing they take place during the day.

After 6pm, however, they are replaced by tiaras.

Only married women can wear tiaras

A woman seen at a function with no tiara is single and available.

 Only married women wear tiaras at social events
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Only married women wear tiaras at social eventsCredit: Getty - Contributor

Two heirs can’t travel together

When he turns 12, Prince George will no longer be able to fly in the same plane as dad Prince William, in case of disaster.

 Prince William and Prince George will not be able to fly together when George turns 12
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Prince William and Prince George will not be able to fly together when George turns 12Credit: Getty - Pool

No PDAs allowed

No matter how much in love William and Kate may be, you won’t see them holding hands on an official engagement.

Public displays of affection are considered uncouth.

Monopoly is banned

On a visit to Leeds Building Society in 2008, Prince Andrew revealed the property board game was not allowed at Royal gatherings because “it gets too vicious.”

 The game of Monopoly is banned at family gatherings
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The game of Monopoly is banned at family gatheringsCredit: Alamy

The Queen’s dinner guests are spoken to in turn

At a formal dinner, HRH chats to the person seated on her right during the first course and switches to the person on her left during the second course.

Shellfish is off the menu

In a bid to avoid food poisoning, shellfish must never be eaten by the Royal family.

 The Queen switches conversations with her courses
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The Queen switches conversations with her coursesCredit: AFP

Crossed utensils are a signal

If a royal needs to leave the room during dinner, they cross their knife and fork to let staff know they haven’t finished their food.

When they are done, the utensils are placed at an angle with the handles at the bottom right of the plate.


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Another code to staff is that when the Queen places her handbag on the table, the meal is over and when she shifts it from arm to arm she is bored and wants to move on.

They can’t wear fur

King Edward III banned all royals from wearing fur in the 14th century, although this rule has been broken.

Kate and William suffered a backlash in 2016 when they wore traditional scarves trimmed with otter fur in Canada last year.

 William and Kate broke the 12th century rule when they wore fur scarves in Canada in 2016
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William and Kate broke the 12th century rule when they wore fur scarves in Canada in 2016Credit: PA:Press Association

There’s a special way to hold a tea cup

When sipping a brew, royals are expected to pinch the handle of the cup with their index finger and thumb, with their middle finger across the bottom of the cup to keep it steady.

Chin placement is important

When royal women pose for a picture, they should hold their head straight with their chin parallel to the ground.

 The Queens corgis are never told off
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The Queens corgis are never told offCredit: Getty - Contributor

The corgis rule the roost

The Queen does not allow her beloved dogs to be reprimanded.

They also get fed gourmet meals prepared by an in-house chef and hand-delivered by a footman.

We previously revealed the one thing you should never ask a royal to do.