I’m 7 months pregnant & sleeping with men who aren’t my husband – he even helps me shave ‘down there’ before dates
WHEN you're seven months pregnant, a lot of every day tasks can feel more difficult.
One woman shared how grateful she was that her man helped her shave "down there" but people were shocked to learn the reason why.
In her viral , TikTok user Jessica Daylover () revealed that her husband was helping her prepare for a date with another man.
The couple have been together since 2009 and officially tied the knot in 2013.
Just before their nuptials, Jessica, who identifies as demi-sexual, and her husband Joe, who jokes that he is "apologetically heterosexual," decided to open up their relationship.
While they explained that they have always faced backlash over their polyamorous lifestyle, it wasn't until the now 35-year-old became pregnant with their son did the hate heighten.
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"I was never criticised more for being polyamorous than when I was pregnant," Jessica said.
She pointed out that this is likely because most people associate open relationships with sex.
Despite their online trolls, Jessica decided to share the supportive nature of her relationship.
The TikToker filmed her 40-year-old husband as he helped her prepare for a date night with one of her other partners.
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"My husband lady-scaping me at before a date with my boyfriend because I’m seven months pregnant and can’t see it anymore," she captioned the clip.
The video, taken from Jessica's point of view, showed how her baby bump blocked her from carrying out the action herself.
When she asked her husband why he was helping her, he replied that he knew being well-groomed was important to her and he wanted her to feel comfortable.
Joe also joked that he "kind of enjoys" the task and didn't see why it was considered "controversial" to help his wife.
Jessica encouraged any women interested in her husband to "slide into my DMs."
TikTok users shared their thoughts on the unique set up in the comments section.
"I legit thought I was the only woman alive that had a husband who likes to groom her for dates! This, this is poly love," wrote one viewer.
What is polyamory?
Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties.
It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a throuple.
According to , 6.8% of people in the UK have been in a polyamorous relationship.
"Honestly, this is the best, most pure representation of love I've ever seen. Just your overall relationship is awesome!" said another supportive follower.
"This is actually so sweet," agreed a third commenter.
However, other people were less open-minded about the couple's arrangement.
"So who’s baby is that then? Isn’t that weird with the baby? How would the baby feel when it gets older?" asked one TikTok user.
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"I’m just trying to understand how the relationship works between all three," said another viewer.
"Legit thought the boyfriend part was a joke as in she's going to see her baby doctor but nope," commented a third person.
