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Divorce lawyer names 3 ‘safe’ jobs where men ‘never’ cheat – so is YOUR husband’s profession on the list?

Read on for more red flags to see if your partner is cheating

A DIVORCE lawyer has revealed the exact job men go for that means they're less likely to cheat on their spouse.

Kate and Chris who form Simonds Law Group took to social media to share their findings after spending years helping couples navigate divorce.

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Those watching spending are less likely to cheat says the lawyerCredit: Getty
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The divorce lawyer revealed there were three professions men pick that make them less likely to have affairsCredit: TikTok/@simondslaw

In the clip, Kate revealed that during her time settling divorces brought on by affairs, there are three professions she rarely sees in her office.

She said: "If you're in a relationship with one of these types of men, you're safe."

"If you've lived through infidelity, it is so heartbreaking. And so don't take this as a science."

The third profession that made the list was an accountant.

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The lawyer added: "I see a pretty common personality type you should be good with.

"No cheating with an accountant."

The next profession she recognised as loyal was that of those who work in the pharmacy world.

Last but not least, Kate revealed that the profession least likely to cheat was a farmer.

"If you are married to or in a relationship with a farmer, I predict no cheating will occur," she added.

On the other hand, the lawyer said women who work as librarians and pharmacists are also the least likely to cheat.

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She claimed farmers were also a safe betCredit: Getty
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The clip posted to their TikTok account @went viral with over 5 million views.

People were quick to take to the comments to share their thoughts and seemed divided on the lawyer's opinion.

One person wrote: "Accountants crunched the numbers and cheating isn't fiscally responsible."

Another joked: "Electrician turned farmer, and I haven’t cheated on my wife since I became a farmer."

"It literally is the man, not his occupation," penned a third.

Four red flags your partner is cheating

Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.

They start to take their phone everywhere with them

In close relationships, it's normal to know each other's passwords and use each other's phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.

says: "If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful."

"You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something."

They start telling you less about their day

When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.

"If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don't want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag."

"Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it's an easy way to get caught out," says Aaron.

Their libido changes

Your partner's libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.

Aaron says: "Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating.  You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren't there before."

They become negative towards you

Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.

"To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere.  Maybe you haven't walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime.  A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating," warns Aaron.

Meanwhile a fourth said: "Farmers don’t have time to cheat."

"My man's job not being on the top three means I gotta go argue with him now,” claimed a fifth.

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Someone else added: “A cheater has nothing to do with someone's profession."

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