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My husband and I haven’t ever had sex, I haven’t even seen him topless but I’m willing to wait for him

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A WOMAN married to a prisoner got candid about their relationship and sex life.

The 26-year-old revealed that she has never so much as seen her husband without a shirt let alone slept with him.

TikTok user Lorra gave an insight into her marriage with a prison inmate, who she has never slept with
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TikTok user Lorra gave an insight into her marriage with a prison inmate, who she has never slept withCredit: tiktok/@lorraandjosh
She explained that she and her husband can only have 'phone sex' while he serves the remainder of his sentence
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She explained that she and her husband can only have 'phone sex' while he serves the remainder of his sentenceCredit: tiktok/@lorraandjosh

In her viral , Lorra () recounted how she met her husband Josh, 21, who is currently serving time for secondary homicide in a US prison.

The TikToker began messaging the former drug dealer on a website for prison pen pals.

After exchanging hand-written letters and poetry, she flew from Dubai to the United States to meet him.

Lorra revealed that she married Josh in secret just six months after her first message.

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However, the pair have yet to consummate their marriage and have only been allowed to kiss on their meetings.

She explained her views on intimacy within her marriage on the podcast.

Lorra told the podcast hosts that she hasn't even seen her husband out of his prison uniform.

"I can send pictures, he can’t so I always get so mad, I have to use my imagination so intensely because I haven’t even seen him without his shirt on, not even that," she said.

She explained that she is allowed to send pictures of herself in lingerie but inmates are not able to reciprocate.

Lorra added that having "phone sex" is the only form of intimacy she can enjoy with her husband.

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However, she said the task is not without a level of awkwardness.

"You’re being recorded so whatever you do on the phone, someone is listening," she said.

While Lorra waits for Josh to serve the remainder of his seven year sentence, she has come up with a creative way to combat her loneliness.

To feel her husband's presence, the TikToker order a small plush toy with his face printed on it.

She shared of her sleeping with the toy and carrying it with her around her house.

UK Prison Brides

  • Tracey Bottomley married double murderer Ernest Otto Smith in the US after meeting through a prison pen pal initiative. Tracey, from West Yorks, knew he had been given a life sentence with no possibility of parole
  • Rebecca Short, from Oxfordshire, told her family she was on holiday in the US in 2022. Little did they know she was marrying double murderer Manuel Ovate Jr, who was on death row 
  • Paula Williamson, an actress who appeared on Hollyoaks and Emmerdale, married the infamous Charles Bronson in 2017 after they became penpals 
  • Karen Charves married Kenny Richey while he was on death row in 2014. He had been convicted for starting a fire in 1986 that killed his ex-girlfriend’s daughter, aged two. Karen and Kenny’s union did not last and she claimed he was abusive.
  • Naomi Wise, from Essex, married Victor Oquendo, nicknamed Animal, while he was serving a 24-year prison term in a US jail. They split up in 2022 but have now rekindled their romance

TikTok users shared their thoughts on the relationship in the comments section.

"I just want to know how down bad you have to be to date a man in prison," wrote one viewer.

"You're standards must be really low to marry a low life," said another person.

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"You do whatever makes you happy and don’t worry about what anyone else says, it’s none of their business," commented a third follower.

"People don’t understand that not everyone in jail is a bad person," said another TikTok user.

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