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I’m a dominatrix – and here’s what my boyfriend thinks

The sex worker also reveals the effect her work has had on her relationship
Woman holding a whip over a man.

A PROFESSIONAL dominatrix shared an insight into her job, including some of the unusual requests she receives.

The sex worker also revealed the popular fetish that she tends to avoid.

A professional dominatrix revealed some of the encounters she has had with her clients
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A professional dominatrix revealed some of the encounters she has had with her clientsCredit: Getty
The woman revealed there is one popular request she avoids
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The woman revealed there is one popular request she avoidsCredit: Getty

In a Reddit , the unnamed user shared her experience in the industry.

"I've been involved in pro-kink since 2000, and have done some fetish films and a little teaching and mentoring," she explained.

The woman went on to say that she currently focuses on working as a BDSM dominatrix.

She revealed some of the ways she dominates men, which often involves bringing them to tears.

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"Emotional release is necessary, and emotional release requires trust," the poster said.

"I feel honoured and blessed when someone cries with me."

She recalled specific encounters she has had with clients.

"We were at a play party, and I was whipping him pretty hard," she said.

"I knew I was riding his limit, and then - he broke, his hands were cuffed around a post, so he just fell straight down onto his butt on the floor."

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"I uncuffed him and talked to him, he was fine, and we went on to do an amazing bullwhipping scene later that night."

The dominatrix also revealed a common request that she briefly considered but decided against.

A fellow Reddit user asked her about her thoughts on relieving yourself on other people.

"I've considered it, but boy, it's harder than you might think," she said.

My current partner, whom I've been with for several years, isn't into BDSM.

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The professional, who charges between £195 to £235 per hour, also discussed how her job has effected her relationship.

"My current partner, whom I've been with for several years, isn't into BDSM," she explained.

"I've always had a pretty advanced sexual appetite, I had my first three-way at 16, my first [time having] sex with a woman [was] at 17.

"I'm insatiably curious, but I've gotten most things out of my system by now, much to my boyfriend's relief."

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However, she revealed that she and her boyfriend both enjoy swinging with women.

In relation to her other desires, the Redditor said her work is a "great outlet."

The dominatrix said that her work is a 'great outlet' as her boyfriend isn't into BDSM
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The dominatrix said that her work is a 'great outlet' as her boyfriend isn't into BDSMCredit: Getty
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