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I’m a 21-year-old and I’ve slept with over 100 people – I’ve bonked in some of the most bizarre places & love attention
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A YOUNG woman has revealed that she may only be in her early twenties, but she has already slept with over 100 people.
The 21-year-old confessed that she began having sex at the age of 17 and now, just four years later, has slept with men in a variety of different locations - including on a plane, in club bathrooms and even in a waterfall.
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The youngster admitted that she loves passion and enjoys attention, hence why she has bedded so many men.
Keen to open up and reveal all, the anonymous woman took to social media to share her story, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit, on the the thread under the username @SevenJumpingCats, the woman titled her post ‘I’ve slept with over 100 people. I’m 21 and a female.’
She then explained that she “used to feel pretty” and sleeps with people to get “that same feeling”.
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The woman expressed: “I was considered one of the pretty girls [in school] but I personally think my attractiveness is more than my face and body.
“I think I have charm and elegance. I show enough, but not too much.
“I flirt, but not so much that I seem desperate. I play just the right amount of hard to get but again not too much that it’s annoying.
“I’m good with people. I talk with sophistication to the right sort of men. I don’t particularly swear unless it's on text.
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“I think your body language and the way you hold yourself makes you attractive. I’ve been with physically unattractive men but if they have charm they suddenly become more attractive.”
Not only this, but she shared: “I am considered a pretty attractive girl. I also believe I portray a sensual, mysterious personality and it sort of sucks people in.
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“I don’t do it intentionally but I’ve been told this by enough people for it to be true. I’ve been told ‘I’m wanted’.”
She then revealed that rather than just beds, she has slept with men all around the world, as she confessed: “The craziest place I’ve ever had sex was on an aeroplane (but it was a private one so I’m not sure if that counts), sometimes in club bathrooms, waterfalls, in a car, in a rice field (long story).. I could probably think of some more.
My boyfriend thinks I’ve only slept with about 15 people
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“I slept around so much because I loved the attention and I loved seeing how men act around me. But I do also enjoy sex.”
Despite this, she claimed: “Sex is just sex. You can have sex with anyone but you can’t make love with anyone.”
When it comes to STIs, the woman stressed: “Never had one. I get tested every three months.
I’m not ashamed of the amount of people I’ve been with. It’s happened and there is nothing I can do to take any of that back
Reddit poster
“It’s a pretty big fear of mine to catch an STD but so far so good!!
“I think I’ve just been lucky.”
And where her happiness levels are concerned, she wrote: “I am happy. I definitely have regrets but on a day to day basis I would consider myself happy.”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left stunned by the woman’s admissions and many flocked to the comments, eager to ask for more information about her sexual stories.
One person questioned: “Have you stopped? And if so, why?”
To this, the anonymous woman replied: “I have stopped. I met the love of my life and don’t feel the need for anyone else.”
I’m moving onwards from it and learning to love attention from just one person now
Reddit poster
Another asked: “Do you think body count is actually important to know about the person you're dating, or is it nobody else's business as long as you're clean (and don't have an army of children)?”
In response, she confirmed: “I think it’s very important. Hence why my boyfriend thinks I’ve only slept with about 15 people.
Dealing with sex addiction
IF you, or someone you know, is dealing with a sex addiction, here's everything you need to know...
Seek Professional Help: Consulting a therapist who specialises in sexual addiction can be very beneficial. Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic approaches can help address underlying issues and develop healthier coping mechanisms.
Join Support Groups: Connecting with others who are experiencing similar challenges can provide support and understanding. Groups such as Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) offer a safe space to share experiences and gain insights.
Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries to avoid triggers and situations that may lead to addictive behaviours. This might include limiting internet usage, avoiding certain places, or ending unhealthy relationships.
Develop Healthy Habits: Engage in activities that promote well-being and fulfilment, such as exercise, hobbies, or volunteering. These can help redirect energy towards positive outlets.
Mindfulness and Stress Management: Practices such as mindfulness, meditation, and yoga can help manage stress and reduce the urge to engage in addictive behaviours.
Education: Learning about sex addiction can help you understand your condition better and recognise patterns and triggers. Knowledge is a powerful tool in managing addiction.
Accountability: Having a trusted friend or sponsor to check in with can provide accountability and support. This person can help you stay on track with your recovery goals.
Avoid Isolation: Isolation can exacerbate addictive behaviours. Try to maintain social connections and seek out healthy relationships that offer support and companionship.
Set Realistic Goals: Recovery is a journey and setting small, achievable goals can help you stay motivated and track your progress.
Medication: In some cases, medication may be prescribed to help manage symptoms of sex addiction, particularly if there are co-occurring mental health conditions such as depression or anxiety.
“It’s my biggest guilt but I think he wouldn’t be comfortable with the real number. He's only been with me and I know the 15 is already hard enough for him.”
Meanwhile, a third wondered: “Are you proud of yourself?”
To this, the woman confirmed: “Yes. I am successful. Studying medicine at university. Have a great relationship with my family and friends.
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“I’m not ashamed of the amount of people I’ve been with. It’s happened and there is nothing I can do to take any of that back.
“I’m moving onwards from it and learning to love attention from just one person now.”
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