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I secretly screen-recorded messages my husband sent his married mistress – now I want to out them to the world on TikTok
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A FURIOUS woman has confessed she’s on the verge of exposing her husband’s chats with his married mistress.
“He has most of the people in his life convinced that he’s a great guy,” she raged.
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The woman said their five years of marriage have been “hell” and accused her husband of being both financially and mentally abusive.
She initially forgave him for cheating but was distraught when she realised he hadn’t stopped.
“I forgave him for his infidelity about a year ago,” she said, writing on .
“I know he’s cheated more I just don’t have proof. The girl he cheated with is a girl he’s had something to do with for most of his adult life.
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“She cheats on him with her husband and he obviously did the same to me.”
The woman revealed she and her husband have continued living together despite discussing plans to get divorced.
She confessed to logging into his TikTok account without his knowledge to read conversations he’s had with his mistress.
“I have a screen recording of them expressing their love and desire to be together, making plans to get away together,” she said.
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“I want so badly to post the screen recordings so they can be outed.
“Would I be the a**hole? What would you do?”
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A stream of commenters admitted they would get revenge on their partners by posting the screen recording.
“I would post them but change his password to the account first and also to your email so he cannot delete the post,” one person said.
Another person advised the woman to post the recording and “play dumb” if he asked her about it.
“You don’t need to worry about what his family or friends think or if they blame you, let people see his true colours and also show theirs,” they added.
However, others argued the woman should wait to post the recordings as it could hinder the divorce process.
“Yeah, the focus should be more on leaving this abusing moron than seeking shame or revenge - not that he's not deserving of both,” one person said.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it's normal to know each other's passwords and use each other's phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
says: "If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful."
"You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something."
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
"If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don't want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag."
"Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it's an easy way to get caught out," says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner's libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: "Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren't there before."
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
"To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven't walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating," warns Aaron.
“I agree,” another commented. “I might keep the evidence in my back pocket but I would put my energy into getting separated from this terrible man.”
“I wouldn’t post it before the finalization of the divorce,” a third chimed in.
“As much as it is tempting to expose him, move on. You’d be surprised by how people still refuse to side with you.”
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“Get a divorce lawyer and hand over all the evidence to them,” another added.
“Now is not the time to ruin him socially, focus on getting what you want in the divorce and walk away from him.”
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