SEX ADDICT
I’m a 23-year-old female and can’t say no to sex – it’s a living nightmare, I’ve slept with bosses and uni professors
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A WOMAN who sleeps with random men including uni professors has described her sex addiction as a "living nightmare".
The 23-year-old regularly has sex with strangers and has also had inappropriate relationships with bosses.
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And that’s not all - she also claims to masturbate in public and will have sex with random men just to ensure her needs are met.
Opening up about the addiction, the anonymous woman took to social media to share all.
Posting on Reddit, on the thread, under the username @notanalabamian, the woman titled her post ‘I’m a female sex addict. I’m living a nightmare and every partner I’ve had has used this to their advantage.’
She then confessed: “I know it’s likely I’ll get bombarded with gross DMs so I’m separating this post from my main.
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“I’m a female sex addict. I’ve been this way since I was 16 and I’m now 23 years old.”
The woman explained that she ‘hates’ her sex addiction and finds it ‘shameful’.
She added: “I hate this. I hate that whatever part of my brain that’s supposed to regulate this is broken.
“I’m not a fun wild girl who’s upfront about her sexual desires like most people think we are.
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“My needs are overpowering and shameful. I feel disgusted in myself every day.
“If the people around me knew what a disgusting person I am, they would lock me up.”
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She continued: “I sleep with men at the drop of a hat. Sometimes I just have tunnel vision and don’t emerge until I’m in some random’s bed.
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“I’ve had STIs multiple times. I’ve been pregnant twice before 21 and had one miscarriage and had to undergo an abortion for the second.
“I’ve had to masturbate in public to get my attention and I’m so ashamed and embarrassed.
“When I’m in classes or in school I can’t focus because I want to get off so bad.
I’ve done things that’d make a pornstar blush, just because I was asked
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“I’ve had inappropriate relationships with men, like bosses and supervisors and professors because I can’t say no.
“[In] my sophomore year, I realised I needed to stop going to parties because I’d just do whatever was asked of me and not even realise until after and be so disgusted in myself I throw up.
“I’ve done things that’d make a pornstar blush, just because I was asked.”
But the woman admitted that she feels “cursed”, as partners will “take advantage” of her love for sex.
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She bravely wrote: “Every boyfriend I’ve had that I confided in about this has taken advantage of it.
“To them it’s a gift, a woman who’s ravenous and literally can’t say no to what they ask of me? They must be dreaming.
I’m cursed with what so many people think is a gift, something that’s been driving me crazy
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“They don’t get how torturous to have to fight these feelings and how degrading it is to be treated like they do.
“I’m cursed with what so many people think is a gift, what so many people would love to exploit, something that’s been driving me crazy.
“And to top it all off I don’t get the same pass as men. If a guy wants to f**k anything that moves he’s a player, “boys will be boys” after all.
“When I sleep with anyone who buys me a drink, well we all know what people will call me.”
REDDIT USERS REACT
Reddit users were left gobsmacked by the woman’s confession and flocked to the comments to share their advice.
Many urged her to see a therapist, in particular a female sex therapist.
One person said: “If something interferes this heavily with your well-being I strongly advise you to seek professional help.”
Another recommended: “Maybe you’re seeing someone already, but in case you’re not: a therapist - and especially a sex therapist - sounds like it could help either sort what may be causing this, or address how to best mitigate it.”
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A third commented: “As others have said: it's time for a real, probably female, therapist. It is controlling your life in a way you're not okay with, and need help finding a way through.”
Someone else advised: “Please see a sex therapist. There's nothing wrong with sleeping with multiple men but if it's interfering with your life it is a problem.”
Help for mental health
If you, or anyone you know, needs help dealing with mental health problems, the following organisations provide support.
The following are free to contact and confidential:
- Samaritans, , 116 123, [email protected]
- CALM (the leading movement against suicide in men) , 0800 585 858
- Papyrus (prevention of young suicide), 0800 068 41 41
- Shout (for support of all mental health) , text 85258 to start a conversation
Mind,, provide information about types of mental health problems and where to get help for them. Email [email protected] or call the infoline on 0300 123 3393 (UK landline calls are charged at local rates, and charges from mobile phones will vary).
run a free, confidential parents helpline on 0808 802 5544 for parents or carers worried about how a child or young person is feeling or behaving. The website has a chat option too.
Rethink Mental Illness, , gives advice and information service offers practical advice on a wide range of topics such as The Mental Health Act, social care, welfare benefits, and carers rights. Use its website or call 0300 5000 927 (calls are charged at your local rate).
Heads Together, , is the a mental health initiative spearheaded by The Royal Foundation of The Prince and Princess of Wales.
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