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I’m married with three kids but love being hit on by strangers – my husband thinks it’s great, he’s never jealous

Some people would be shocked by her husband's reaction.

A MUM claims husbands should be flattered when other men flirt with their wives 

Courtney Tillia, 37, has been married for more than a decade and still loves it when the opposite sex give her an ego boost.

Courtney loves getting little compliments.
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Courtney loves getting little compliments.
Her husband doesn't get jealous.
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Her husband doesn't get jealous.

But she doesn’t think it should be frowned upon.

Instead, she thinks that other halves should feel good about their partners getting compliments.

The teacher turned model, from Los Angeles, said: “I think it’s very healthy for married people to still feel like they’re desired and wanted. 

“We all want to feel that way to some extent, but feel so much shame around it.

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“I remember Ayesha Curry (wife of NBA superstar Steph Curry) getting dragged by people for alluding to wanting male attention despite being married. 

“I thought she just had the courage to say and own what a lot of people won’t. 

“It is affirming and feels good to be desired, complimented, and even hit on.”

Courtney added: “It doesn’t take anything away from your relationship.

"Not if all parties are secure and actually want what’s best for all involved. 

“When everyone feels confident and desired, the energy between you is just better. 

I am an ex-teacher – parents & colleagues accuse me of turning kids to ‘temptation’ but I don’t care

“My husband thinks it’s great how desired I am and celebrates me when I get hit on. 

“He always says, ‘I don’t understand jealousy.'

"You always come home to me.

"What’s there to be jealous about? They’re the ones that should be jealous’”

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