I’m a tantric coach and you can use ‘sex magic’ to manifest your biggest goals – you shouldn’t be afraid of making noise
MANIFESTING a more fulfilling life comes down to how you position yourself — in the bedroom.
According to a tantric sex coach, if you can dream it, you can do it — by doing it in the right way.
MANIFESTING MISSION
It turns out that sexy time tips can lead to more overall success, according to Sarrah Rose, a tantric sex coach and founder of the AI-powered app Elixr.
Rose, who trained in tantra for ten years and spent time with gurus in India, has shared how you can take your lovemaking to the next level.
"Sex magic is a way of visualizing something you want for your life, particularly during sex," she told The U.S. Sun.
She explained that the most significant bedroom breakthrough usually happens at the peak of intimate perfection — orgasm.
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This manifesting mindset is designed to get you and your significant other on the same page.
"You and your partner can have the same goal," she said.
"It can be wanting to go on vacation together next year and manifesting that through your sexual practices," she continued.
This between-the-sheets sorcery utilizes sexual energy to manifest core desires — but you have to be ready to reach the next level.
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"We achieve what we focus our attention on and take action steps towards," she said.
"The trick is to do personal growth work before attempting sex magic. We often only focus on surface desires and don't know our true desires.
"We also tend to have self-sabotage patterns that keep us from achieving our desires."
THE BIG PREST-'O' CHANGE-O
Once you have "healed the wounding" that is holding you back, simply use your imagination to visualize your desires — even if it's on your own.
"Keep imagining yourself having what you want as your pleasure builds and during climax," she said.
Men can have multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms and women can have multi-full body orgasms as well.
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"The next step is to take action in your life to achieve this desire. Keep focusing until you have accomplished what you want," she continued.
"Most importantly, do things that bring you joy, love, and pleasure as you work towards your goals."
WAVE YOUR MAGIC WAND
Her pro tips can also lead to extra pleasure all over the place.
"Full-body orgasms are pretty common in tantra," she said.
"It's about being able to feel that you have orgasms down to your toes, fingertips, and up to the crown of your head.
"Everything is electrified through that orgasmic experience.
"Men can have multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms and women can have multi-full body orgasms as well."
BETTER BREATHE-LIEVE IT
You can also heat things up by getting a high sensation without taking any substances.
She explained that better bedroom sessions all start with our breath.
"Tantra includes a lot of breath practices," she said.
People hear tantric sex and think about Sting talking about having sex for several hours — and you can, and it can be tantric sex, but it's so much more than that.
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"By using our breath we can experience various states of awareness where we feel more.
"It releases DMT, so it can feel like you're having a drug-induced experience even though you're not on drugs," she continued.
And that's not the only thing that translates to more tantalizing sex sessions.
Incorporating sounds can "amplify" our sexual experience.
"A lot of people feel inhibited when it comes to sexual sounds," she said.
"It's noticing sensations in body movement from moment to moment and following the sounds so they can grow and expand," she continued.
"It can help you to grow more deeply with your partner as well."
YOU'RE WORTH IT
The tantric coach and entrepreneur knows that prioritizing our own feelings of self-worth can lead to extra pleasure.
That is why her approach, as well as her Elixr app, are rooted in self-love.
"When we are more connected to ourselves and give ourselves what we really desire, then we show up for sex in a different way," she said.
And there's more to self-love than just longevity.
[Gen Z-ers] don't want to be ghosted, they don't want hookups — they want a deep connection.
Sarrah Rose
"People hear tantric sex and think about Sting talking about having sex for several hours — and you can, and it can be tantric sex, but it's so much more than that," she said.
"It's about the intimacy and the deep connection and love that comes through the practices," she added.
"It helps them improve themselves — it's a personal growth mechanism, and it's a big component of the app.
"It's about giving ourselves what we deserve, but a lot of people don't talk about it or really understand what it is."
Rose wants you to remind yourself to take care of yourself just like you would somebody who you love and care about.
"We often have stories in our head that we're not worthy or deserving. We're trying to jump through hoops to prove ourselves rather than being who we are," she said.
KEY TO GEN-Z
Her app, which is especially focused on helping Gen Z find their forever, has some insight into their partner preferences.
"They don't want to be ghosted, they don't want hookups — they want a deep connection and that's what I've helped people achieve through tantric coaching," she said.
"They're looking for stability and authenticity in a healthy, committed relationship," she continued.
"We help create a relationship based on who you are and what you want and also create a sex life that feels good to you.
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"We are there for our members as they navigate those questions that come up in their relationships."
Her aim has also been to help reimagine relationships and hopefully pull away from unnecessary pain.
