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I help men cheat on their ‘moaning wives’ who are ‘lazy in the bedroom’ – I’m actually helping their marriages
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A WOMAN has revealed that she helps men to cheat on their "moaning" wives, and claims that it makes them better husbands.
Bonnie Blue, who is originally from the UK but now lives in Australia, said that "women are lazy" in the bedroom, and shouldn't be surprised when their husbands go elsewhere for sex.
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“I actually think [cheating] makes you a better partner, because then you can come home, deal with your wife’s winging, get on with looking after the kids… but you’re just sneaking off elsewhere to get pleasured," she said on Australian radio show: Kyle and Jackie O.
She said that the men's wives usually don't know that she is sleeping with them, as they do it "on the sly."
Bonnie revealed that she has slept with hundreds of married men, and described it as a "stress release" for them.
"They come and see me, and it allows them to have like a reset button", she told the Edge Breakfast radio show.
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Bonnie usually charges the men, but said that she has started offering a "free service" to help men to de-stress.
She said: "I offered a free service, and all you had to be was married.
"I slept with 16 husbands in one night, free of charge."
Bonnie has made millions from her "service" and from uploading adult content online.
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Sharing advice to women, she said: “You need to mix it up in the bedroom because if your partner is eating beans on toast everyday, you couldn’t blame him for wanting to go elsewhere for steak."
“If he’s at an all you can eat buffet, he can have a bit of everything."
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However, Bonnie claims that no man would ever cheat on her.
"I’m too hot and too good in the bedroom", she said.
Critics have slammed Bonnie, arguing that she only sees the men's side of the story.
However, she said: “If they’re going to work and doing a hard day's shift, they need to be treated”.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it's normal to know each other's passwords and use each other's phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
says "If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful."
"You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something."
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
"If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don't want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag."
"Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it's an easy way to get caught out," says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner's libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says "Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren't there before."
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
"To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven't walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating," warns Aaron.
And if their wives aren't able to give them their "treat", then Bonnie is happy to do it for them.
Her comments have enraged women, who have accused her of lacking in respect for both herself and women in general.
However, Bonnie does not care.
She said: "I’m not asking for respect.
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"Your husbands and partners, they pay my bills and my family’s bills and they’ve made me a millionaire, so I’ll continue."
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