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I share my husband with 2 more wives – our unusual relationship isn’t the issue, trolls have spotted a bigger red flag
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A WOMAN has revealed she shares her husband with two others wives, adding that he is paying for them to get surgery, so they all become his ideal body type.
Stephanie and her husband Mazayah were previously in a relationship together, before Mazayah started dating Rose.
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He tried to be monogamous in both relationships, but it didn't work, so he introduced Rose to Stephanie, and they entered a polyamorous relationship.
"We decided to bring other women into our life when we split apart. We were just like, 'let's get another girlfriend' because [Stephanie] is bisexual so we were like, 'let's do it,'" Mazayah told .
More recently, they added another woman, Dezaray into the mix, to complete their unconventional family.
Mazayah likes his three wives to all co-ordinate, in matching coloured clothes.
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"We kind of go with the same colour scheme, but we have the same individual style", she said.
Stephanie said when she first entered a polyamorous relationship, she faced a lot of judgement from people who questioned how she could shared her husband with another woman.
And now that there is a third woman in the mix, she said the judgment is "just beyond".
"It's funny because we've probably been in a poly relationship longer than most monogamous relationships", said Mazayah.
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He said some of the comments suggest the women have low esteem, and judge Stephanie for coming back into the relationship, "as a side chick".
However, Mazayah said these comments make him feel stronger and "closer to his wives".
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Mazayah has encouraged his wives to get plastic surgery, as "it makes the woman look better", and even drew a picture of his ideal body shape, to give the girls inspiration.
The three wives spend a lot of time exercising to look their best for their husband, who admitted to telling them if they were out of shape.
Rose added: "People may think that Mayzayah is trying to control us, because of the dynamic that they don't understand.
"But they're not in our relationship.
What is polyamory?
Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties.
It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a throuple.
According to , 6.8% of people in the UK have been in a polyamorous relationship.
"We're not being forced to do anything, if we want to leave we can leave."
Stephanie added: "Being a sister wife is a big benefit, as we have a long life friend to depend on."
Dezaray chimed in: "Being in a poly relationship is super empowering, I love being around women that I can learn from."
Viewers were quick to comment on Mazayah's opinion on plastic surgery.
Someone said: "Once they started talking about plastic surgery that was a red flag for me."
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Another commented: "I was fine with the two wives until it got to the plastic surgery and him choosing their clothes."
A third wrote: "I don't mind the relationship, but this video makes it seem like he only cares about their bodies and only wants them for sex lmao."
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