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Guests left my wedding when they saw the rules – they called me ‘ridiculous’ but I was just being smart
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A WOMAN has revealed that guests left her wedding, after finding out the "ridiculous" rules she had put in place for her big day.
The bride shared her list of rules via a video posted to social media, leaving many people shocked.
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The first rule on the women's list was that everybody helped to set up the event.
She said that she didn't hire any staff, so everyone had to do their bit, even her grandad, who had to set up chairs despite having a bad back.
Next on the list was the fact that wedding guests were only allowed two alcoholic drinks during the day.
The bride revealed that this was to save money, and also "to prevent any family drama from too much drinking".
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The third rule was that no one was allowed to get out of their seat, unless they were getting a drink, food, or going to the toilet.
The bride said: "Some guests want to just stay with their group and not socialise, and that has to be respected."
Guests also weren't allowed to use a camera, and instead had to download an app, that allowed them to take 10 pictures, that were uploaded to a shared album.
Finally, the woman revealed that all of the wedding guests had to be out by 10:30.
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She said: "We love the party animals who want to stay up and have fun.
"But my husband and I still have work in the morning, so we need to get a good night's sleep, just like any other day".
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The video, which was posted to the TikTok account, has likely left many open-mouthed, as it has racked up over 97,000 views on the video sharing platform.
TikTok users raced to the video's comments section to share their thoughts.
One person said: "Sorry but why would you work the day after your wedding?"
Another person said: "One of the best parts of a wedding is socialising with friends and family… Having everyone “remain seated” is wild…".
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I’m a traditionalist so I love to go to a wedding with a list. A list where the price points vary, the prezzies are a mix and there’s something for everyone. The joy of a list is we know the bride and groom want these things and we know no one else will buy the same - for me, that’s a win-win. I got married 8 years ago and still remember who bought us a certain photo frame or the posh-plate that only comes out at parties.
But, that being said, if someone doesn’t have a list I still would NEVER turn up empty handed. That’s plain rude. Even if the wedding cost an arm and a leg to get there. A wedding takes months, if not years,of planning, costs a fortune and it’s one of the best days out and the best parties you ever go to, so a small gesture of thanks is essential.
I still remember those who didn’t even bring a card to mine!
Also I don’t think a couple should ever quibble if guests want to give you a wedding present that’s not on your list – older generations, in particular, may feel this is more personal.
To be honest, it’s weddings where the couple want money contributed to their honeymoon or their house fund that makes me feel awkward. Is £50 tight, £150 too lavish? Where’s the benchmark? I spend weeks agonising over it talking to anyone or everyone going and then normally take a stab in the middle.
So for me - always go for a list, stick to the list and let the list be your guide!!
A third person said: "I have a feeling no one argued about leaving by 10:30."
A fourth added: "I can't believe you had your grandpa set up chairs".
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