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I sleep with married men all the time but I don’t consider it cheating – I’m too rich & successful to date normally
Katija Cortez revealed the reasons for her unconventional attitude to dating
A WOMAN who regularly sleeps with married men has said that she doesn't class it as adultery, or feel guilty about it.
Katija Cortez, from Sydney, Australia, said that she doesn't like to date people, as she is often far more successful and rich than the men she meets.
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The 28-year-old is an escort, and said that most men speak highly of their spouses, after paying her to sleep with them.
She said that she believes that denying men a service due to their relationship status would be discriminatory, so she has no problem sleeping with then, despite the fact that they are married.
Speaking to Femail, she said: "I would say about 50% of my clients are married or in relationships.
"It's hard to say for sure though, because I'm sure a lot are in relationships that just don't bring it up.
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"Other girls have told me that almost all of their clients are married".
Katija, who used to be a successful accountant, said that men who are unhappy with their sex lives, often choose to hire escorts, as it's a lot easier than having an affair.
She said that affairs involve emotional baggage and feelings, whereas what she does is just physical.
She said: "I don't like to call it cheating when a married man sees me, because there aren't any romantic feelings involved.
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"They come to me because they want to laugh, be held, and be pleasured".
Katija said that she doesn't think that men that come to see don't love their wives, and said she finds it very moving when they speak highly of them.
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She added that some of the men that come to see her just want to be hugged and kissed, which surprised her at first, as these are often thought of as things only wanted by women.
However, Katija added that often men do come to see her when they are going through a rough patch in their marriage.
Additionally, some men that have lost interest in their wives, but choose to stay with them for the children pay her a visit.
Katija said that wives should not blame escorts for their husband's behaviour.
She said: "Wives need to understand that us sex workers are not going out stalking married men and dragging them into our hotel rooms.
"Married men seek us out willingly. We are not the problem".
'The problems always start in the home.
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"I don't encourage cheating but I also don't believe in monogamy either, because I have seen time and time again that truly faithful relationships are rare."
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