WITH our wedding often being the biggest day of our lives, it’s no wonder that tensions can run high and brides can get extremely particular about their ceremony.
One woman has broken the internet with her long list of rules though and even told guest that they are ‘irrelevant’ during her big day.
Needless to say, the internet had a few opinions about this picky bride.
Her detailed list of rules were originally shared in that’s It, I’m Wedding Shaming group, with members shocked by how rude the note was.
Rather than asking guests to politely behave themselves on the big day, the bride-to-be made her demands very clear.
Though there were some obvious rules like no big announcements and no wearing white people couldn't understand some of the bride’s decisions.
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For example, guest couldn't rearranging chairs because they had ‘a seating chart for a reason’ and were not to ‘sit down all night’.
However, this wasn’t the rudest rule on the list.
It was also bad news if you aren’t a fan of loud music.
The bride pointedly told guests: “This is ‘taking over for the 99’ and 2000’s’ type of event, so there will be twerking.
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“If you can’t handle or dislike the music that is being played, simply go home. This is a celebration, not a funeral.”
She even demanded that attendees keep their opinions to themselves throughout the ceremony and though this seem reasonable, the phrasing wasn’t exactly subtle.
“If you didn’t put out any money for the wedding, keep your should’ve, could’ve, would’ve to yourself. Your opinion is irrelevant,” she wrote.
Unsurprisingly, the post has gone viral in the group with many question why you would send this – even if you thought it.
In fact, the original poster even commented on the list, saying: “It’s the ‘do not sit down all night’ for me.”
Others agreed, with another adding: “I was already thinking about not going by #1…Declining by number #3…Messaging my bestie by #5…Said I’ll be in my pjs at home by #11…Talking about you to my mom by #13…Thrown away the card after #15”
A third even suggest that the bride would have far fewer guests after sending the note.
They joked: “They have successfully trimmed their food and alcohol budget by quite a bit with this rudeness. Those rsvp yesses just turned into a bunch of no's.”
Some even questioned whether the bride like those she’d invited.
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“If you hate your guests just do everyone a favor and don’t have a wedding,” suggested a fourth, with fifth saying: “The tone is so disrespectful ... if you don't like these people, don't invite them and do an elopement.”
While every bride wants their wedding day to be perfect, we reckon that she might have wanted to read the note before sending it out.
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