I have 3 wives & a special way to keep their jealousy at bay – people side-eye us in the street but we’re usually happy
A POLYAMOROUS man has revealed how he deals with cat fights while dating three women at the same time.
Jerome Gunn has left people shocked after sharing his controversial relationship with the world.
The 34-year-old has three partners and shares two children with two of them.r may receive backlash, but Jerome swears it's so much fun, plus they get four incomes in one household.
The influencer from Alabama, US, met his first wife Jazz, now 25, in 2016 with the pair wedding three years later.
But the couple decided to open up their marriage soon after and found Dea'Ja, 22, on Facebook almost a year after they decided to go polyamorous.
“The last woman added to the family is the person who makes the decision on adding another woman,” Jerome told
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“[But] we all sit down and come to a mutual agreement.
“One day, Dea’Ja and Jazz decided they wanted to add to the foundation.
"We were searching and dating for almost a year and found Jasmine (23 years old).”
However, Jerome admits it can be tricky dating several people at once, especially when they're always together as they share the same bed.
We solve our differences and disagreements by having an ‘energy circle.
Jerome Gunn
Like any relationship, disagreements can arise - but the quad have found a special way to combat bad blood.
Jerome said: “Everything is not sunshine and rainbows.
“We have times where we disagree.
“That would be the only negative I could think of but with any relationship or in life, you have disagreements.
“We solve our differences and disagreements by having an ‘energy circle.’
“An energy circle is where we come together and form a circle where we discuss our feelings and fix any problems we have.
“Another [disadvantage] is we had to get a custom bed because all of us couldn’t fit in one regular king!
We all sleep in the same bed, in the same room.
“The sex life is amazing!
“We are all intimate with each other but some days it could be one on one or maybe two on one or all together.
“It just does depending on availability.”
While the foursome are more than happy with their unique relationship - they have had to tackle criticism from loved ones.
Jerome said: “We get told all the time that we shouldn’t live like this.
“But that only [makes] us want it more.
“The public also sometimes gives us the side eye because they are not used to seeing a man with multiple wives, getting along and being happy!”
Despite the backlash, Jerome revealed that there are plenty of positives that come from opening up a relationship.
He said: “It’s so fun.
“You have multiple partners with different personalities, views on life and mindsets.
“You have multiple support and love from all of these people who you can trust.
“Multiple forms of income and help around the household and also with the children.
“It’s almost like living in a house with a group of friends who you can call on for anything!”
Jerome and Jazz have one son together, Jace, five, who lives in their house, along with Dea'Ja's three-year-old son from a previous relationship.
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He added: “The children never questioned it [the relationship set-up] but Jace does call all of the women his mother.
“He started doing that on his own as all of them show him love and take care of him as a mother should.”