I’m a yoga teacher in a 17-year age gap couple – my job helps us keep our relationship interesting
A YOGA teacher has revealed the many ways his job keeps things interesting in his relationship - with sessions in the bedroom lasting up to four hours.
Mike Kumar from 54, started dating partner Ellanski, 37, after she chatted him up in the gym.
And Mike, from Birmingham, said their 17-year age gap has zero impact on their chemistry and bond.
“Age is just a number and shouldn’t be a barrier whatsoever", he said.
"If you are compatible spiritually and mentally, that is all that matters.”
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Speaking to the pair on how they first met, they revealed that their first encounter was at the gym during a Legs, Bums, and Tums class.
Ellanski said: “I was watching him on the gym wall mirror, there were three other class goers between us, and I knew I just had to go up to him and introduce myself.
“I was not nervous at all to make the first move, it all kicked off with a simple 'hi,' we connected instantly, and the rest is history.”
Mike revealed that Ellanski making the first move was in fact a "huge turn on".
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He agreed to a date with her at the local pub and have been together ever since.
Mike also admitted he had been a bit of a serial date before meeting Ellanski but had no luck "clicking" with that special someone.
And he said they click so much that they have sex at least 10 times per week.
“Sex will last from 10 minutes to up to 4 hours", he revealed.
“Practicing yoga helps. Certain yoga positions can in fact lead to increased body awareness and flexibility so, this can contribute to a better and healthier sex life."
Mike reveals that he and Ellanski will “practise yoga positions both in and out of the bedroom to keep things fun”.
Aside from sex, the couple share other ways in which they stay connected.
“We love eating out, but spending time at home is our favourite thing to do", Mike said.
"If I’m cooking an evening meal for her, I will always make sure the room is lit with candles, dark lighting, and music to set the mood.”
When it comes to maintaining a healthy relationship, Mike and Ellanski also said the key to their successful relationship is spending time apart.
They said: "Sometimes we can go a few weeks without seeing one another, but we always ensure we stay in communication, whether that be Facetiming, or exchanging late night Whatsapp messages.
"Talking is how we keep connected even when we’re not together. Frequent sex of course always helps.”
Finally, when asked what advice they have for couples looking to try new things in the bedroom, they suggest: “Try new spaces! Stray away from the bedroom and see where you end up, this keep’s things fun and interesting.
"It’s also good to experiment with new things, but don't put pressure on each other, start small and simple and don’t forget to communicate.
"It’s also fun to try positions from the karma sutra.”
Jo Hemmings, sex and relationship expert for Knect, said: “The winter months have been shown to reduce our libidos – we have lower Vitamin D levels and people may feel their mood changes for the worst when the evenings draw in.
"But on the other hand, there is something comforting about the winter months – a time when we can be cosy, hibernate together and enjoy intimacy with our partners.
“It’s great that Mike and Ellanski are so transparent with one another and seem so open to trying out new things.
"It is easy to get into routine habits in the bedroom, so it’s important to mix things up.
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"A change of scenery is always a good idea. Taking it out of the bedroom and into another room can shake things up a bit and will make your intimate moments feel that little bit more adventurous.
“Sex is good for our wellbeing, both mentally and physically, and lubricants can help enhance that experience – this is where Knect comes in.”