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DRESS DEBATE

Mum worries the dress she got her daughter, 16, is ‘inappropriate’ so begs for advice – and people instantly weigh in

A MUM has sparked a debate after asking for advice about letting her 16-year-old daughter wear an “inappropriate” dress. 

The woman took to showing off the garment, and asked other mums if they would let their daughters go out in it.

A mum took to Mumsnet to ask if a dress she bought her 16-year-old was 'inappopriate'
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A mum took to Mumsnet to ask if a dress she bought her 16-year-old was 'inappopriate'Credit: Shein
The teen had said all her friends are wearing similar dresses
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The teen had said all her friends are wearing similar dressesCredit: Shein

She wrote: “My 16 year old DD is going to a party and I have bought her this dress. I at first said it was inappropriate but I caved and bought it anyway. 

“I said if it is not appropriate when it arrives I will send it back. 

“She thinks this unfair and I shouldn't control what she wears at 16 because all her friends wear the same.”

The dress in question was blue and figure-hugging, with a cut-out side section and a plunging neckline.

Her post sparked a debate online, and people were on either side of the argument. 

Some said she should let her daughter wear the dress. 

One wrote: “Let her wear it while she has the body and confidence to, you're a long time too old to wear it.”

Another said: “I think you have to support her no matter what.”

And a third commented: “She's more like an adult than a child now op i think the time for controlling her clothes has gone by.”

Meanwhile one reasoned: “Well truthfully you can’t really stop her, and she’s not wrong, the majority of teenagers dress like 23 year olds going clubbing.

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“I know what you mean, it would make me uncomfortable too but honestly pick your battles.”

However, other mums said the dress was inappropriate, with one person adding: “I wouldn't want my daughter to wear it. It's too sexualised and I'd worry she'd get in a position she couldn't handle.”

And one agreed, saying: “I wouldn’t want my daughter to wear it either.”

People had different opinions on the Mumsnet thread
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People had different opinions on the Mumsnet threadCredit: Shein
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