My bridezilla sister uninvited me from her wedding for the stupidest reason – it’s divided our family

WEDDINGS are supposed to be a special day shared with close friends and family.

However, over-the-top demands and ridiculous rules by a bridezilla can ruin the day.

A Reddit user shared how her .

"I told her sorry, but with working full time, being in the final stages of preparing my thesis and teaching some summer classes; that I would not make a good bridesmaid," the Reddit user said.

She explained: "When I attend a wedding I want to have fun, eat food, and dance. In exchange I will get you a gift. I do not want to spend my energy, time, and money on your big day."

The poster had previously denied requests from her cousins to be part of her bridal and clarified that she would not have one at her own wedding.

She also revealed her sister had some outrageous demands for her bridal party in the lead up to the big day.

"The dresses she is looking at for her party are $450, she expects a weekend bachelorette in Vegas with all the bells and whistles," she said.

She continued: "And wants everyone to attend dance classes to learn this elaborate dance to 'surprise' her with."

The Reddit user revealed that some of her family members took her sister's side in the feud.

"Now she said I am not invited to her wedding. If I am not willing to put forth the effort to make her day perfect, then I do not deserve to be there. Honestly I don't care. But my mom and some aunts are calling me an a**hole," she concluded.

The comments section was divided on which sister was in the right.

One user said: "Being maid of honor used to mean standing with them at the wedding. Now it seems to mean plan parties, showers, and drop $2k on unnecessary stuff. Run."

"Just seeing how she reacted to your refusal, you know you made the right choice. Save yourself from all the rest of her bullsh*t," wrote another person.

Other users thought the original poster was being unreasonable and unsupportive of her sister.

One person said: "I don't know about your relationship with your sister but if it was my sister's wedding, I'd drop everything for a few days to be there for her."

"If you don’t want to extra responsibilities outside of standing next to her, explain that to her," suggested another user.