I’m a model – there’s a stigma to being sexy, people don’t realize I’m more than my big breasts and good looks
GLAMOUR model Lindsey Pelas is sexy – and she's not hiding it.
But the 31-year-old blonde bombshell tells The Sun that being so unapologetically hot means people often mistake her for being dumb or mean – and not only are they wrong, but they're being manipulated into thinking that.
"Unfortunately, I do think being beautiful means people don't take you seriously," Lindsey said.
"There's been a lot of my life where I've had to prove that I'm smarter and more talented, [that I'm more] than beautiful. It feels like every day and every interaction," she said.
That can include fending off nasty messages she gets on social media or contending with presumptuous men who are fixing her car.
"They ask me what my husband or father does for a living," she said. "A lot of people fully assume that there is a man taking care of me.
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"There's always that fear that I'll be mistreated and certainly ripped off," she said.
She argues that so many people see a pretty woman – especially one who knows she's pretty and embraces it – and make up their minds: "She must be vain. Or she must have nothing else to offer."
Lindsey explained: "On the one hand, people think you're playing into what men want you to be. And on the other hand, there's always been this trope that to be beautiful, you must also be stupid.
"In a patriarchal society, a woman can't win no matter what. If you're ugly, you're not wanted, you're undesirable, and no one's looking at you.
"If you're beautiful, they had to come up with something, so they went with stupid and it's really caught on," she explained.
Lindsey pointed out that this cliché – pretty, dumb girls – is everywhere, in TV shows, movies, magazines, and books.
"The stories were concocted to keep a couple of people in power and in charge and benefitting from these stereotypes," she said.
"I don't buy them."
"I have natural big boobs that have happened since eighth grade. So I was already given that characterization of s**t or w***e, simply by my natural body type at a very young age.
"So as soon as I learned that those slurs had nothing to do with my moral character, or sleeping with men, I realized 'Oh, I'm gonna do whatever I want to do anyway.'
"And if that's dress really hot, so be it. If that is take photos of myself, so be it."
Male stars can certainly do it without criticism.
"Justin Bieber performs topless all the time! And he looks cute! But no one is calling him a s**t in the comments. So it's just never made a ton of sense to me that only women weren't supposed to use their beauty, only men can."
And for women, being naked can be a statement.
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"Look at a lot of countries that we as Americans like to criticize and say they're so oppressive to women, they don't get to go to school, they cover their faces.
"Well, what is the visual opposite of having someone forced to cover themselves from head to toe? In my opinion, the opposite is me being naked."