Woman horrified when she discovers Tinder date got ENGAGED last month – but gets her revenge by outing him to his fiancé
A WOMAN was horrified after arranging a date with a bloke on Tinder - only to find out he’d proposed to his girlfriend the month before.
Kimberly Anne swiped right on a man, and the pair spent the evening chatting about ‘finding someone special’ before planning to meet up for a date.
The 31-year-old decided to do some research on her would-be suitor, finding him on Facebook.
To her horror his profile showed he was in a relationship, and shockingly he’d got engaged the month before.
Seething with rage, the legal professional confronted him about his infidelity, but he claimed she’d got the ‘wrong guy’.
But Kimberly says his distinctive tattoos gave him away, so she decided to oust the cheater to his fiancé.
Kimberly, from Palm Beach County, Florida, said: “I matched with this guy on Tinder and we were chatting for the entire evening, arranged to meet for a date and exchanged numbers.
“I asked him what he was looking for and he asked me the same question and I told him that I was hoping to find my special someone and he responded with ‘I love that’.
“He sent me a message on Whatsapp and I asked him why he was messaging me on there instead of just sending a regular text and he just changed the subject.”
With her suspicions raised, Kimberly did some snooping on social media, and found her date online.
She said: “When I started scrolling on Facebook it brought up suggested friends and I recognised him immediately from his profile picture.
“I thought I’d take a look and the first thing I noticed was that it said he was in a relationship.
“Hoping it was old I clicked on her profile and the first post was an engagement announcement from exactly one month ago.
“My first emotion was just complete shock, I could not believe it - I was just flabbergasted.
“I wasn’t seriously emotionally invested yet, but I was angry on her behalf that he would do this to her.”
He initially tried to deny it was him, but the matching tattoos proved it was the same person.
Kimberely said: “I looked again at his Facebook pictures and compared a tattoo on his arm to the pictures on his Tinder profile and it was the exact same tattoo, so I told him this.
“I just felt if the tables were turned I would want her [his fiancé] to tell me.
“I feel women have to support women in these situations - we have to have each other's backs.”
So she bit the bullet and messaged his fiancé on Facebook, sending screenshots of their Tinder chat.
Kimberly said: “My whole body was shaking when I was sending these messages because I didn’t know how she was going to react.
“I felt so awful and partially responsible that I could potentially be breaking this woman’s heart.
“I said do what you will with this information, I would want to know if it was me.
“She just said ‘it’s ok it’s not your fault, thanks’.
“I blocked him and unmatched with him on Tinder because I was afraid that there would be some sort of backlash - I didn’t want to be harassed by him.”
Despite outing the cheating fiancé to the woman, she says the couple still seem to be engaged as neither of their relationship statuses have changed.
Kimberly added: “Her response was so calm and minimal that I don’t know if she was in shock or maybe this was something that had happened before and she wasn’t really surprised by it.
“I’m afraid that she has decided to forgive him, but that’s her choice if that’s what she wanted to do.
“Personally I would have ended the engagement immediately, but maybe she was more understanding than I would have been.
“Later in the day I looked at his profile and saw he had changed his profile picture to one of him and his fiancé together hugging.
"Maybe that was his way of saying that it won’t happen again through telling everyone he’s totally in love with her.”
Kimberly decided to share her experience online, and was “saddened” by the number of women who claimed a similar thing had happened to them.
Kimerley added: “I want to believe that this is not something that is common.
“I’ve been single for eight months and ultimately want to find my special person - I would like my next relationship to be my last.
“I have to be very careful going forward about what questions I ask and really assess the way they’re answering those and continue to see if I can find anything about them online before I get too invested.”
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