My lover only sees me once a week and I won’t hear from him for days if he’s playing golf
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been dating a man for six months but I can’t work him out at all.
We see one another once a week, but I won’t hear from him for days if he is off playing golf.
I am 50, he is 53. The sex is lovely and affectionate. I asked him if it is just the sex he wants and he said no, and in fact we don’t always have sex on the one day a week we spend together.
He gets on well with my friends and we are due to go on holiday together.
But he has said he likes things the way they are and doesn’t want anything serious. I don’t want to get hurt but I am getting feelings for this guy. I don’t know where I am with him.
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DEIDRE SAYS: With a guy like this, what you see is what you get. He will happily keep on like this – seeing you once a week but offering no commitment – for as long as that suits you.
You have to decide if you would rather have that weekly date than nothing, or whether you are going to end up feeling hurt by the stalemate.
If so, it’s better to call it a day now and free yourself to meet someone who would welcome commitment.
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