I feel stuck in my relationship and I’m sick of it — am I wrong for browsing dating sites?
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DEAR DEIDRE: I FEEL totally stuck in my relationship so I go on dating sites looking for someone special to take my mind off it.
I want to finish with my boyfriend but whenever I try to, he threatens to kill himself. Then I feel guilty and stay with him. We are both 22.
A while back, I started seeing someone else who treated me like a princess.
He took me to Paris for a weekend, which my partner would never dream of because of the expense.
I told my new guy I was single but he saw me out with my boyfriend. Then he called everything off saying I had lied to him and hurt him, but I just couldn’t face telling him the truth.
I am still with my partner but I want someone else.
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DEIDRE SAYS: This is not fair on you or your boyfriend.
If he is truly suicidal it will also involve issues from long before you came on the scene.
Tell him that you’re not right for one another and that he will now be free to meet someone else who will make him happier than you can.
My e-leaflet on Ending A Relationship will help you.
Say you’re sorry if he is hurting but he can find help through Samaritans (, 116 123).
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