SEX STRESS
How can I get my girlfriend to give me oral sex? She flatly refuses
I happily do it for her, but she won’t return the favour
DEAR DEIDRE: HOW can I get my girlfriend to give me oral sex?
When we first met she would happily do it wherever, whenever. But now she flatly refuses.
We are both 24 and have been together for three years.
Once, she even dragged me into the bathroom at a party and gave me oral while other guests banged on the door. It felt unbelievable.
But then, about a year ago she admitted she had never really liked doing it. I happily do it for her, but she won’t return the favour.
Can I get her to change her mind?
DEIDRE SAYS: I understand you miss receiving oral sex, but you absolutely can’t make anybody do anything in bed that they don’t want to.
The more you try to pressure her into doing it, the more you will put her off.
She might even lose interest in you and the relationship completely.
You should both read my support pack Tensions Over Oral Sex.
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