CAN'T LET GO
My ex is flirting with me on work video calls and I don’t know what to do
He typed a love heart into the chat instead of a thumbs up.
DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex keeps flirting with me during Teams meetings. Has he fallen for me again?
We both work from home. We hooked up last year, but I ended things when my friend saw him on a dating app.
I’ve kept a professional distance and have started seeing somebody new.
My ex is 36 and I’m 34. My ex and I have to be on the same Teams call every week.
Recently he’s been flirty. I gave a presentation, and he typed a love heart into the chat instead of a thumbs up.
Another time, he asked me to stay on to discuss a project, but then just quizzed me about my weekend plans. Does he want me back?
DEIDRE SAYS: It may be that he does still like you, or has unresolved feelings.
But it could also be that he is just trying to get a reaction from you now you’ve moved on.
Do you even want someone untrustworthy?
Ignore his advancements if you want to give your new relationship a proper chance.
My Moving On support pack will help.
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