Nina’s clashes with her boyfriend over their open relationship
DEAR DEIDRE: MORE couples are opting to open up their relationships, but non-monogamy can spell disaster for many.
Seeing other people to simply distract yourself from the issues in your own relationships is problematic.
You and James weren’t communicating well and there was little understanding as to why he didn’t want as much sex.
Rather than looking to understand that dynamic you went all out to find sex elsewhere.
If you want to strengthen your relationship and improve your sex life, you need to spend some time listening to James and in turn opening up yourself.
My support pack Strengthening Your Relationship explains more.
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