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Tom confides in his brother after his break up
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DEAR TOM: It is entirely understandable why hearing your girlfriend calling out your brother’s name would bother you.
But it won’t have been easy for Sophia knowing she was doing this either.
It’s key to remember that dreams aren’t reality and can even represent a complete distortion of how that person feels.
In fact the worry about blurting out his name could have made these outbursts even more likely.
You’ve given meaning to these dreams, when really what mattered is that you and Sophia only had feelings for each other.
If you think you would like to give your relationship another chance, you will need to rebuild the trust.
My support pack Understanding Jealousy should help you.
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