I’m head over heels for a guy who doesn’t know what he wants
DEAR DEIDRE: I'VE fallen for a guy who doesn't seem to know what he wants. I'm a 24-year-old man and he's 25.
We met on a hook up six months ago and have been sleeping together regularly ever since.
I sent a text recently admitting that I'd fallen for him but he sent a message back saying he doesn't want to see me any more because he doesn't want to talk about his feelings.
Talk about misreading the signs! I thought he felt the same way.
Then when I went back on the same app he became really jealous. He said he didn't know how he felt about me but was annoyed and kept blocking me.
Then I bumped into him when I was leaving a club one night and he messaged me later asking if he could come over to talk. He was quite upset.
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He opened up about his childhood trauma saying he was not in the right place for a relationship.
He left and since then I haven't heard from him. Am I wasting my time?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Probably. It's not surprising you wonder where you stand with him.
He's a troubled young man but you aren't going to be able to fix him. He needs professional help for the childhood trauma he suffered.
At least take a step back and see how long it takes him to get in touch off his own bat.
My support pack Mend Your Broken Heart will help you.