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A handyman would solve all of my relationship problems

READ Dear Deidre Editor Sally Land's personal replies to today's problems.

DEAR DEIDRE: MY life would be so much easier if we could afford to take on a handyman.

I used to do all the DIY, the decorating and the repairs but these days, I’m not up to it. My wife goes on at me all the time about fixing the garage door or lopping the trees around the garden.

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It causes a lot of tension between us.

We are both 79 and we live in a big five-bedroomed house which we’ve had for almost 50 years. We wanted children but it never happened for us.

My pension is OK but it wouldn’t run to getting all these repairs done. My wife is in denial about us getting older and less able to do things. 

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DEIDRE SAYS: Find a moment to explain that her demands are spoiling your relationship. You don’t feel as fit as you once were and you can’t afford to employ people to help.

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