DEIDRE SAYS: PLAYING mind games leaves everyone feeling unsettled and wondering where they stand.
By pretending to be someone else, you will never attract the right person for you.
Your genuine personality is generous and open-hearted – you have some great qualities but it may help to slow things down a little.
The next time that you meet someone you like, perhaps focus on getting to know them as a friend, going full throttle romantic can be a bit overwhelming for some.
We live our lives on dating apps and social media these days but don’t forget one of the best ways to meet someone is through friends and real life.
So next time you are out and about, look up from your phone and you never know there might be someone friendly sitting right next to you.
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