I signed up to OnlyFans behind my boyfriend’s back for extra cash
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER months of struggling financially, I’ve signed up to OnlyFans to help increase our income, but I know my boyfriend will freak out if he finds out.
I’m 25, my boyfriend is 26, and we've been together for three years.
I have a good figure, and I know I can make good money on the platform, but it does mean I will need to strip and do sexual things in front of the camera.
While I'll be protected behind a paywall, I know my boyfriend will be uncomfortable and make an issue of it.
However, at this point I have no other option. We both work full time, and even with extra jobs such as dog walking and house sitting, we’re struggling to make ends meet.
My boyfriend and I are desperate to buy a place of our own, but we’re miles away from being able to save towards a deposit.
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DEIDRE SAYS: If you haven’t told your boyfriend because you know how he’d react, it’s clear that you don’t feel entirely comfortable with this either.
If you do this behind his back, you risk breaking trust in your relationship and causing issues between the two of you.
Ultimately, there are many other ways for you to make some extra cash.
I’m sending you my Help For Job Hunters which explains different ways to try to get more, and well-paid, work.
It’s better to wait to find the right opportunity than wreck your relationship.
