I’m dreading going back to university because of my nasty housemate
DEAR DEIDRE: My nasty housemate is making me dread going back to university.
He’s made it clear he doesn’t like me, and I don’t know how I’m going to cope living with him.
I’m a 19-year-old guy. He’s the same age.
We’re on the same course. He has always treated me like I’m a waste of space - giving me dirty looks and scoffing when I talk or make a joke.
Next term, I’m moving into a shared house with a group of friends.
I didn’t realise someone had asked him to join us, so the rent is cheaper. Everyone else is happy about this.
The idea of sharing a home with him is making me so miserable.
What can I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Unfortunately, there’s always going to be people you don’t get along with.
Talk to your friends and see if they can help you and the other guy smooth things over.
They’ll want a harmonious house too.
My support pack, Standing Up For Yourself, might help you to talk to them and him.
Rows With Friends would also be useful for you to read.
